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How to Seduce a Woman Who Is a Submissive Masochist?

Noitard

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I've been seeing someone professionally who almost certainly is one, and want to learn how to romance her better..
 

Jan

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Smack that bitch.

DISCLAIMER: I assume that you have sense of humor.
 

Conquistador

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Dominate her frame. Be chill and respectful about it, but make it clear you’re in charge while obeying the Law of Least Effort. The one time at college I tried this, it worked so well that I accidentally broke her heart when I decided I didn’t see her that way.
 

Chase

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Smack that bitch.

DISCLAIMER: I assume that you have sense of humor.

No, but really though... :D


Dominate her frame. Be chill and respectful about it, but make it clear you’re in charge while obeying the Law of Least Effort. The one time at college I tried this, it worked so well that I accidentally broke her heart when I decided I didn’t see her that way.

Right. Dominant frames and leadership imply dominance other places too (like the bedroom).

There are other things you can do, like the hair pull routine:

I love your hair. I have / used to have long hair too. You know what feels really good is when someone grips your hair and PULLS just the right way. Have you ever had that? But you've got to do it right... A lot of people just grab a few hairs and pull. Then it hurts. The right way is to grab a big fistful of hair, THEN pull. Here, let me show you... [grab a big fistful of her hair then gently but firmly pull]​

When things are getting further in, tell her to come sit on her lap. Then tell her wait one minute, I want to see something... have her stand up... give her ass a big hard SLAP... then tell her to sit back down on your lap again. When she does just tell her, "Just as I thought. That's a firm ass. You must work out." If she says no you just tell her you're surprised; either way she's on top of her health/figure.

Talk about biting: "So... biting: yay or nay? And if 'yay', how hard? I always like to ask that one. Little love bites or great big chomps that leave a mark, what's your thing?"

And if she says she likes being bitten you can tell her she's making your teeth want to chew on something...!

Chase
 
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