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Date Plans  How to set and run a Romantic Date ?

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Hey everyone,

I always thought that in GC the casual style of dating was the only one advocated and romantic ones are to be avoided at all cost. I was wrong!

@Chase recommends it in One Date and the classical article about compression dating. Franco also gave it as a recommendation as a second-date option in this thread (Quote below)

Of course, the thing to keep in mind is that there is no "surefire" way to make a girl sleep with you when she's at your place no matter what. It depends a lot on the girl, her experience, where she feels she's at in her life, and how she feels about you. If you really still want to sleep with these girls, then you can definitely invite them for a second date. There are two methods of doing this:

  • 1) Invite her directly over to your place to cook dinner. This route is the cheaper and faster way to get to sex, but it also runs the risk of her "being prepared" for you to attempt to escalate again. She'll go over to your place keeping in mind that you will probably try to push for sex, which, if she thinks your boyfriend/provider value is too high, she may again resist your advances and try to get another date out of you.

    2) Invite her out for a romantic date (such as dinner for two or picnic at the park/beach), then DON'T invite her home with you (leaving her thinking your a very sexy and romantic man) while she stews in her thoughts wondering if you'll see her again. Then two to three days later, send her a text to set up a meet at your place for dinner (and do the same thing you would do in suggestion 1). This usually has a pretty high success rate with girls if you pull it off effectively, but you'll also have to invest more time and money into her (via 3 dates instead of 1 or 2) to get the lay.

So, I would love to give it a try just as an experiment and to change a little bit from my usual casual coffee shop date, I live in a coastal area with a lot of good restaurants for that and I have social proof in all of them.

However, I can't find any good resource here in GC or the community about how to set and run such a date. I could only find some in mainstream dating advice and I don't want that.

Any good tips or advice on how to properly run such a date without being complete "bluepill"?

Thanks
 
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