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Seamy

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I am college student and broke withno part time job cause the field am taking is full time course. its become difficult for me to get laid ( even socializing ) , I have cool friends but stop meeting them cause I hate being dependent on them . So what can I do to change it
 
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Skjöldr

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Remake the post so it's less weird and has more details so we can help

Your friends are cool but you can't socialize with them without being dependent?
 

Sky

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Remake the post so it's less weird and has more details so we can help

Your friends are cool but you can't socialize with them without being dependent?

My guess is that his friends are financially better off than he is, hence he doesn't want to become a burden during social situations. E.G Friends paying his dinner/drinks or whatever.

Regardless if you're out with your buddies for drinks or food, you don't actually need to buy anything. You can just sit there and chill/talk and socialise with everyone, it's not weird if you're not spending any money. I've done it a lot of times before with no problem.
 

Witcher

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I am college student and broke withno part time job cause the field am taking is full time course. its become difficult for me to get laid ( even socializing ) , I have cool friends but stop meeting them cause I hate being dependent on them . So what can I do to change it

More details will be helpful. But something you can start with is to join some student club/organization and event in Uni. Most of them are actually free to attend and you will easily meet new people. This was partly how I did when in college.
 
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