How to steal a girl from right under another guy's nose

[Humay]

I'm still travelling in Asia and if i learnt one thing, it's that 'most' foreign males that come here solo travelling are really pathetic. Having spent two weeks travelling to different hostels and encountering them, it appears that most of them come here after 20 years in a dead-end job and haven't yet found a girl in Europe/America, so they come here to flirt and date the beautiful 18-21 year olds. Good for them for taking the risk, but it's just makes me cringe how attatched they become to a beautiful woman as soon as they see them and want to spend all day and night with them (meanwhile the girl is usually busy on her phone, texting her friends).

Girls here are very polite and curious about meeting new people. Especially foreigners. So they will oblige to come with you if you ask them out. But that does not mean that they like you at all. In fact, it isn't until much later they reveal whether they have any feelings for you at all.

So here's the problem. This is 10 times more difficult than the equivelent situation in Europe/US, where you see a man with a woman who is clearly infatuated with her, but she is not at all with him. The men here are desperate to cling to their beautiful woman and the woman are more inclined to stay with the man they're already with to prevent him feeling hurt, even though they may be having a bit of a boring time.

What do you think i should do? Thank you

 

[diegoC]

It's pretty easy actually. If you are next to her just start touching without being obvious. Start focusing you attention on someone and don't do anything else with you focus. With your non-verbal touching start escalating with her. Touch her foot (if she doesn't do it before to try to get your attention). Girls want to guys to be looking at them so if you don't do it she will start trying to get your attention. Just watch with your peripherals and you will see how funny it is: they start posing, brushing their hairs, many little stuff. Then just keep mirroring her touches.

If you are not next to her start a visual non-verbal escalation so she wants to get closer to you (see my post at the bottom to understand what I'm talking about).

You can see an outing report I posted where I did all this. It was full non-verbal escalation. Although this girl had no boyfriend she had a guy that is his fuck buddy. I tried this with a girl who had a boyfriend in that same party and we escalated a bit (but I liked the other one more).

Cheers!