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- Nov 11, 2013
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I've been in game for roughly a year and a bit and have properly started trying to increase my abilities with seduction for about 6 months. Since then I have made a large amount of progress to the point I think women are starting to hook more consistently (or at least be much more open to my advances). I used to try learning multiple skills at a time but this doesn't work for me I've decided so I want to stick to one skill at a time. Namely, how to tease a girl.
I can manage conversations just about but I always find that if the beginning of an interaction doesn't go well things swiftly go down hill. One thing I believe for causing this is the high pressure social situation (that day game brings) and the lack of social momentum on mine and the girls part (until I've approached several girls). Reading through Chase's E-book and various other resources, humour, especially teasing, is a good way to defuse tension from a high pressure situation and put both parties more at ease.
The problem is is that I am a terrible tease. I think I know what teasing is and have looked it up and the best definition I've found is: Being mean to someone with underlying tones saying "I like you". I've tried to apply it and somethings hit but the majority just seems to come off wrong. What I'm really asking is, how do you tease (language wise) and what sort of tonality do you use, or how would you form a teasing sentence and how would you deliver it? Or is it just a matter of experience and wracking up lots of bad teases?
P.S. I only struggle teasing medium to small things in people whereas if someone does something that can't be missed (i.e. walking around you when you first meet them and then saying they're dancing with you).
I can manage conversations just about but I always find that if the beginning of an interaction doesn't go well things swiftly go down hill. One thing I believe for causing this is the high pressure social situation (that day game brings) and the lack of social momentum on mine and the girls part (until I've approached several girls). Reading through Chase's E-book and various other resources, humour, especially teasing, is a good way to defuse tension from a high pressure situation and put both parties more at ease.
The problem is is that I am a terrible tease. I think I know what teasing is and have looked it up and the best definition I've found is: Being mean to someone with underlying tones saying "I like you". I've tried to apply it and somethings hit but the majority just seems to come off wrong. What I'm really asking is, how do you tease (language wise) and what sort of tonality do you use, or how would you form a teasing sentence and how would you deliver it? Or is it just a matter of experience and wracking up lots of bad teases?
P.S. I only struggle teasing medium to small things in people whereas if someone does something that can't be missed (i.e. walking around you when you first meet them and then saying they're dancing with you).
