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How to Tell A Girl You Like Her

Zoro

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Last night, I was thinking about a certain girl who I run into at parties once a while. Her and I vibe very well and she follows my lead (almost feels like she holds great respect for me.) Lump that in with her great body and cute lively face and I decided I want to move things forward with her. She does have a boyfriend (who's with her every time I see her) but I thought maybe if I just pull her aside and say "Hey, we get along well, I really like you :)...

Wwwwait. No! I laughed at myself for this. Actually, I should still pull her aside, have her follow me some place alone. When we get there, look her in the eyes, grab her hips and gently push her into the wall maintaining eye contact. After some tension filled seconds, "You know you're a bad girl, I'm upset with you... Cutting off that beautiful hair of yours for a boy's haircut smh (this is true.)

I think this could go a couple ways, depending on a lot of things, like how well I pull it off, how attracted she is to me, and how attached she is to her boyfriend.

-If she is totally into it, I'd start to bring my face closer and build tension like a kiss but then turn her around so her back is facing me and gently pin her into the wall with my body. She'd be able to feel how aroused I'd be through my pants and I'd tell her she's going to start growing her hair out now. When she complies I tell her good and then bring her back to the party where I'm sure we were being missed. (escalating further with the boyfriend there may be troublesome, I want to maintain discreetness. Starting drama would be a buzz kill on the party.)

-That's best case senario. If she resists I'd have to maintain my frame and keep up the sexy vibe while talking with her and figuring out her objections.

-If she doesn't like it, tells her boyfriend, then I take the punch in the eye like a man because I probably deserve it, if she was actually very into him.

What do you guys think? ;)

- J
 

Franco

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J Wick,

I wouldn't keep your hopes too high here. Generally when a girl has a boyfriend, she absolutely needs to be as discreet as possible to protect her reputation if she ever plans on cheating on him. That includes not engaging in anything physical with guys that she knows or that know her boyfriend, even if loosely.

The few girls that I've slept with that had boyfriends were girls that I had met THAT night, and I moved VERY quickly with them -- no date; just straight to back to their place for sex. I would expect a great deal of resistance or teasing to occur if you tried to escalate with her while she's till with her boyfriend. If you know the two have been having serious problems and are on the verge of breaking up, then you could engage in some sexting to get her thinking about what sex would be like with you, and the next opportunity you have to get her alone, you could try to make a move. But don't put too many eggs in this basket.

- Franco
 
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Zoro

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Good advice Franco,

Also this would look poorly on me, if it were discovered, since they are in a social circle of mine even if they are on the fringe of it.

Though I hear the boyfriend is moving very far away soon.... hehe

They seem happy enough together, its very frequent that I meet girls I'm into who have steady boyfriends, whom also seem into me and willing to go out alone with me. I swear I'm a magnet to them. I used to say "girls with boyfriends are my type" because it happened so often.

Keep your girl away from me ;)

Seriously though I don't enjoy stealing girls. Is it possible I am just attractive to girls with boyfriends for some reason?!
 
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