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So it’s a long story I don’t know if I need to go into yet but I spent a lot of time with a girl last semester and in the beginning of this one had to cut her off. Now every time I meet a new girl, I eventually see her hanging out with them (it’s a small campus) and then never hear anything from the new girl. Sometimes they act very cold afterward.
I try to stay clear of her but we’re similar enough to have similar schedules so it’s hard to not cross paths. I’m not sure how much of a problem I have here nor what to do about it but I heard from a mutual friend she said i pressured her to drink and stuff (which I didn’t, I literally have an album of screenshots of these messages from her begging me to get her something and hang out)
Edit: also would like to know if there’s anything i can do to warm up the girls she’s turned away from me. again, it’s a small campus and they’re just some cool people i’ve hit it off with really well.
i generally have a pretty good rep with a lot of people here but i had to cut her off due to a falling out in our social circle and she ended up saying all that stuff as well that i intended to screw her over somehow. and when i tried to clear things up and keep things at least not hostile between us, she just got even more upset (like tears, worked up a fit, death stares afterward) and just called me a liar even though i could literally prove that i’m not but she just didn’t want to hear it. Now she just treats me like i’m someone who’s out to get her or like i took advantage of her even though nothing happened, only saw her as a friend after a while (now she avoids eye contact, never sits in the same room, and looks over her shoulder any time was pass each other). i’ve thought about saying something a few times but figured it’d just resolve itself over time. it’s been four months, i haven’t said a word to her but it still continues. i just want this to stop. next time i notice a girl i talked to act differently after seeing her, i’m going to say something to figure out what she’s saying to them.
i can understand why she’d be hellbent against me but these girls know nothing more than what they’re being told, and i know can prove that whatever it is isn’t true. i never did anything that’d warrant these reactions. if i’m wrong to do this and anyones got a better idea, speak now or forever hold your piece
Edit: if you want the full story, I wrote up in my journal. It's the most recent entry here
I try to stay clear of her but we’re similar enough to have similar schedules so it’s hard to not cross paths. I’m not sure how much of a problem I have here nor what to do about it but I heard from a mutual friend she said i pressured her to drink and stuff (which I didn’t, I literally have an album of screenshots of these messages from her begging me to get her something and hang out)
Edit: also would like to know if there’s anything i can do to warm up the girls she’s turned away from me. again, it’s a small campus and they’re just some cool people i’ve hit it off with really well.
i generally have a pretty good rep with a lot of people here but i had to cut her off due to a falling out in our social circle and she ended up saying all that stuff as well that i intended to screw her over somehow. and when i tried to clear things up and keep things at least not hostile between us, she just got even more upset (like tears, worked up a fit, death stares afterward) and just called me a liar even though i could literally prove that i’m not but she just didn’t want to hear it. Now she just treats me like i’m someone who’s out to get her or like i took advantage of her even though nothing happened, only saw her as a friend after a while (now she avoids eye contact, never sits in the same room, and looks over her shoulder any time was pass each other). i’ve thought about saying something a few times but figured it’d just resolve itself over time. it’s been four months, i haven’t said a word to her but it still continues. i just want this to stop. next time i notice a girl i talked to act differently after seeing her, i’m going to say something to figure out what she’s saying to them.
i can understand why she’d be hellbent against me but these girls know nothing more than what they’re being told, and i know can prove that whatever it is isn’t true. i never did anything that’d warrant these reactions. if i’m wrong to do this and anyones got a better idea, speak now or forever hold your piece
Edit: if you want the full story, I wrote up in my journal. It's the most recent entry here
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