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I had a cool friend,and we used to hang out a lot,
it reached a point when they started blueticking me,and not returning calls,
this in itself isnt such a big problem because I could just delete their number and move on.which i did,problem is out of the blue they would call again,or shooot a text months later aksing how i am doing,
this puts me in a very hard position,I cannot just bring myself to play games like,"you took a month to reply,so I will take a month to reply too",I reply,only for them to dissapear again.
It really makes me feel low value,I feel like telling them "dont ever text me again" is harsh,and i feel like ignoring them is petty,yet condoning them makes me feel low value.
what is a smooth firm non bitter way to say,"hey dont ever contact me again"
at this point im way past the point of trying to tell them to change,because they usually apolgise profusely only to do the same shit.
it reached a point when they started blueticking me,and not returning calls,
this in itself isnt such a big problem because I could just delete their number and move on.which i did,problem is out of the blue they would call again,or shooot a text months later aksing how i am doing,
this puts me in a very hard position,I cannot just bring myself to play games like,"you took a month to reply,so I will take a month to reply too",I reply,only for them to dissapear again.
It really makes me feel low value,I feel like telling them "dont ever text me again" is harsh,and i feel like ignoring them is petty,yet condoning them makes me feel low value.
what is a smooth firm non bitter way to say,"hey dont ever contact me again"
at this point im way past the point of trying to tell them to change,because they usually apolgise profusely only to do the same shit.