SO I was drinking with my boy havin a blast and I really wanted pussy so I decided to hit up a girl I friendzoned on fb. Dropped my phone in the toilet a couple of days ago so it no longer works. I wanted to see how far I could push this needless to say the longer it went on he more intoxicated I got but I still had fun. Let me know what you guys think. Like whether I should pursue or if she was just fuckin around.
Me : O.O
Her:Lol. What's up? Haven't seen you in ages.
Me: hola chika how you feelin!
Her:Tired lol. How about you?
Me: Im ready to go lol
I've been home sick and im just comin outa of it
so im ready to party
lol
Her: Nice. So you are partying tonight? Sounds fun. I'm just home
Me: im drinkin with my boy so i guess its a party hahaha
but it sucks your never at work
Her:I work monday, wednesday, and thursdays. Other than that I'm at forever21.
Me:
only day i work is monday *sigh* ( looking back I don't work Mondays dunno why I sad this)
how is that goin by the way?
Her:It's going good. They are looking for people to be "recovery specialists" which comes with a pay raise and the 3 people they wanted that had been their longer don't want it and out of the newer hires I am one of the top choices. So that might happen soon
Me: a pay raise? they hireing?
that sounds good as shit
Her:
Lol. They are probably not hiring right now. Hours are a little slim this time of year, like at bed bath.
Try a little closer to spring.
We're getting a men's section some time this year
Men word
Her: You would probably enjoy working there. Lots of pretty girls all over the place
Lol
Me:
th:S (mistyped shit here)
you know me so well
Her: I know haha
Me: and a mens section i could def buy some new shit
Her: I miss working with you. It's so sad we never work the same time/days anymore.
Me: i know we have so much fun...
work isnt the same without samira
Her:I know. I'm awesome. Work is significantly less enjoyable without marquis.
Me: you just get to bask in my awesomeness
its okay
Her: I am not prepared to have a battle of egos with you. I am not narcissistic enough.
Lol
Me:
and you can handle it without getting offended
lol
Her:
Yeah. Few things actually offend me.
Speaking of being offended though. The Korean guy I was dating broke up with me because I didn't have enough time for him. Because I work too much. My independence was offended. Like I don't work cuz I want to, I work cuz I have to.
Totally done with younger guys. done with English school students. Most of them live off their dad's money and have no sense of reality and the struggle. ( I encourage her to hook up with dudes and want her relationships to succeed she was a virgin before this guy and this guy moved soooo slow and I helped her see the positives about it like supported the relationship from a brotherly standpoint.)
Me:
damn that sucks and if you gotta work do you shit
what do you mean
Her:Like most foreign students that are here studying anything get all their money from their parents. some of them have never worked. And the majority of them will not find work while in the US because it is typically not included in their student visas. Their parents just pay everything for them.
Therefore they have no responsibilities outside of going to class and doing homework. So they don't fully comprehend the struggle. They are like children...
( I am getting drunker but having fun with this convo, not trying to fuck but seeing if I can out of curiosity)
Me: I see
so they cant raeally relate to you on that level because your doing stuff yourself and they have no real understanding of that
Her: Yeah
Me: damn that sucks
u aint get ya asian boo thang
Her:Yup.
Except for that maturity gap he was great. Oh well. On to the next
Me: eh thats how you gotta play the game
Her: manager at cheeseboy wants me to meet a guy currently working at cheeseboy. She works over at prudential a couple times a week so I visit her after I get out at forever21 and apparently he thought I was cute. I'm not sure who it was though. I just know he's black. So one of the 2 black guys I usually see there lmao
Me: oh shit samira is into two black bitches
Her: No. I am just not that picky. I don't care about ethnicity so much. Personality is more important. Just generally I am not attracted to black guys based in appearance.
But in general I am not attracted to black guys personality. .. like ghetto or thuggish lol...
Me: you dont like the whole thuggish but i guess the prepish works?
or what?
Her: Idk... not preppy exactly...
The styles I am normally attracted to are not usually done by black guys...
Me: ??
Her: Yeah. Idk. I guess we could just say I like stylish and well dressed.
I also have a thing about darkness. I am not attracted to dark.
Me: dark by dark do you mean negative?
or like dark sense of humor
Her: No. Dark as in skin tone xD
Me:LMAO RACIST!!!
Her: I know
Me: guess i understand
i only like a certain type of black girl
Her: Yeah. I like certain types of black guys. Well dressed and not dark skinned xD
So my options are currently 2 black guys it seems like. One of the guys at cheeseboy and a guy I know from the Japanese meetup.
It's nice to know I have options but I've only been single 3 weeks and still feel like laying around and being a potato
Me: options are amazing
and potatos are good too
luckily im not dark hahahaha
Her:Haha true
Me: ooo...
Her :Ooo nothing lol.
Me: shutup dont tell me nothin
Her: Haha xD
Ok
Me: ah this is fun
lol
XD it has been a while
Her:For real.
are you working monday?
Me:no sorry... you cant see me monday in person would be better tho
Her: Right
Damn
Me:sooo much more fun....
Her: Yeah. Oh well. Guess we would have to hang out outside of work sometime
lolol.
Me:that sounds interseting
perhaps we have to set up a day
Her: If you want. I am free a lot
Me: alright when?
cause im usually good on nights
but my psots a no go
Her: Lol. I'm free most nights. I place is also a no go and I am broke til next friday.
My* place
Me: hmmm
we could do my spot since we both broke
but thatd have to be on a certain day
Her: Ok lol
I wanna sleep. We'll figure something out later
Me:]peace\
dont dream about me okay?
Her: I'll try not to lmao
Me: please try hard
Her:Shouldn't take too much effort
Me: oh really...
Her: lol bye
Me: peace
That's the end of It. I think I have a shot but I'd love for the community to weigh on in and let me know what they think and what I could of done better. Gonna invite her over sometime this week so we shall see. trying to fuck another coworker or two aswell. It's tough out here without a phone lol.
Me : O.O
Her:Lol. What's up? Haven't seen you in ages.
Me: hola chika how you feelin!
Her:Tired lol. How about you?
Me: Im ready to go lol
I've been home sick and im just comin outa of it
so im ready to party
lol
Her: Nice. So you are partying tonight? Sounds fun. I'm just home
Me: im drinkin with my boy so i guess its a party hahaha
but it sucks your never at work
Her:I work monday, wednesday, and thursdays. Other than that I'm at forever21.
Me:
only day i work is monday *sigh* ( looking back I don't work Mondays dunno why I sad this)
how is that goin by the way?
Her:It's going good. They are looking for people to be "recovery specialists" which comes with a pay raise and the 3 people they wanted that had been their longer don't want it and out of the newer hires I am one of the top choices. So that might happen soon
Me: a pay raise? they hireing?
that sounds good as shit
Her:
Lol. They are probably not hiring right now. Hours are a little slim this time of year, like at bed bath.
Try a little closer to spring.
We're getting a men's section some time this year
Me
n wordHer: You would probably enjoy working there. Lots of pretty girls all over the place
Lol
Me:
th:S (mistyped shit here)
you know me so well
Her: I know haha
Me: and a mens section i could def buy some new shit
Her: I miss working with you. It's so sad we never work the same time/days anymore.
Me: i know we have so much fun...
work isnt the same without samira
Her:I know. I'm awesome. Work is significantly less enjoyable without marquis.
Me: you just get to bask in my awesomeness
its okay
Her: I am not prepared to have a battle of egos with you. I am not narcissistic enough.
Lol
Me:
and you can handle it without getting offended
lol
Her:
Yeah. Few things actually offend me.
Speaking of being offended though. The Korean guy I was dating broke up with me because I didn't have enough time for him. Because I work too much. My independence was offended. Like I don't work cuz I want to, I work cuz I have to.
Totally done with younger guys. done with English school students. Most of them live off their dad's money and have no sense of reality and the struggle. ( I encourage her to hook up with dudes and want her relationships to succeed she was a virgin before this guy and this guy moved soooo slow and I helped her see the positives about it like supported the relationship from a brotherly standpoint.)
Me:
damn that sucks
and if you gotta work do you shitwhat do you mean
Her:Like most foreign students that are here studying anything get all their money from their parents. some of them have never worked. And the majority of them will not find work while in the US because it is typically not included in their student visas. Their parents just pay everything for them.
Therefore they have no responsibilities outside of going to class and doing homework. So they don't fully comprehend the struggle. They are like children...
( I am getting drunker but having fun with this convo, not trying to fuck but seeing if I can out of curiosity)
Me: I see
so they cant raeally relate to you on that level because your doing stuff yourself and they have no real understanding of that
Her: Yeah
Me: damn that sucks
u aint get ya asian boo thang
Her:Yup.
Except for that maturity gap he was great. Oh well. On to the next
Me: eh thats how you gotta play the game
Her: manager at cheeseboy wants me to meet a guy currently working at cheeseboy. She works over at prudential a couple times a week so I visit her after I get out at forever21 and apparently he thought I was cute. I'm not sure who it was though. I just know he's black. So one of the 2 black guys I usually see there lmao
Me: oh shit samira is into two black bitches
Her: No. I am just not that picky. I don't care about ethnicity so much. Personality is more important. Just generally I am not attracted to black guys based in appearance.
But in general I am not attracted to black guys personality. .. like ghetto or thuggish lol...
Me: you dont like the whole thuggish but i guess the prepish works?
or what?
Her: Idk... not preppy exactly...
The styles I am normally attracted to are not usually done by black guys...
Me: ??
Her: Yeah. Idk. I guess we could just say I like stylish and well dressed.
I also have a thing about darkness. I am not attracted to dark.
Me: dark by dark do you mean negative?
or like dark sense of humor
Her: No. Dark as in skin tone xD
Me:LMAO RACIST!!!
Her: I know
Me: guess i understand
i only like a certain type of black girl
Her: Yeah. I like certain types of black guys. Well dressed and not dark skinned xD
So my options are currently 2 black guys it seems like. One of the guys at cheeseboy and a guy I know from the Japanese meetup.
It's nice to know I have options but I've only been single 3 weeks and still feel like laying around and being a potato
Me: options are amazing
and potatos are good too
luckily im not dark
hahahahaHer:Haha true
Me: ooo...
Her :Ooo nothing lol.
Me: shutup dont tell me nothin
Her: Haha xD
Ok
Me: ah this is fun
lol
XD it has been a while
Her:For real.
are you working monday?
Me:no sorry... you cant see me monday
in person would be better thoHer: Right
Damn
Me:sooo much more fun....
Her: Yeah. Oh well. Guess we would have to hang out outside of work sometime
lolol.
Me:that sounds interseting
perhaps we have to set up a day
Her: If you want. I am free a lot
Me: alright when?
cause im usually good on nights
but my psots a no go
Her: Lol. I'm free most nights. I place is also a no go and I am broke til next friday.
My* place
Me: hmmm
we could do my spot since we both broke
but thatd have to be on a certain day
Her: Ok lol
I wanna sleep. We'll figure something out later
Me:]peace\
dont dream about me okay?
Her: I'll try not to lmao
Me: please try hard
Her:Shouldn't take too much effort
Me: oh really...
Her: lol bye
Me: peace
That's the end of It. I think I have a shot but I'd love for the community to weigh on in and let me know what they think and what I could of done better. Gonna invite her over sometime this week so we shall see. trying to fuck another coworker or two aswell. It's tough out here without a phone lol.
