How's the life of a seducer after college?

[onlyshallow]

I'll get into a real university in 2016 and I'm thrilled with the opportunities a big college campus will give me for seduction, but, at the same time, I worry about what will happen when college'll be over. I always feel that it's downhill after that because you'll be too old for sexyass college girls and other stuff. For those who ended college a long time ago, how do you manage being a seducer? Do you still sleep with really hot girls?

 

[Anonymous]

I can't really vouch for college life much because while I was still an undergrad, I was working almost full time and had other responsibilities that limited my on-campus social life. I didn't join any clubs or frats, and I rarely hit up college parties. I did meet a number of girls through classes and walking around campus. It really depends on the vibe of your school though.

For example, I went to school in Southern California, and the general vibe of these colleges is that they're not very insulated. They're located near larger cities like Los Angeles (UCLA, USC, the CalStates), San Diego... so there tends to be less of a college town vibe. I've visited and hung out at a number of these campuses and they're not the typical college environment. They're still great for building social circles and meeting girls through friends and connections on campus. That's the advantage of college campuses. If you're good at building social networks and connections, you can be invited to lots of parties and social functions and meet lots of cool guys and girls that way.

Just because you get out of college doesn't mean you're suddenly a nobody. You won't have the option of calling yourself a college student, but it just forces you to base your identity on more than just a scholar, or an athlete, or a fraternity brother, etc.

I see college as a great place to build social connections and a good "arena" for developing and sharpening your overall social skills and self-image. It's the one time when you're still young enough and you're in the kind of environment that encourages experimentation and self-exploration. But is it the best place to meet women? Yes and no.

Social value and connections are really key. If you try cold approaching with reckless abandon at say... a club associated function or a frat party... you could develop a bad rep and get ousted. It really does force you to be more socially savvy and chill. But have fun with it, don't be afraid to push your limits and learn where your edge is. Most guys think they're pushing their boundaries, but they're really not. This is the time and place to go a little crazy.

 

[onlyshallow]

Well I'm really happy for the satisfaction your post-college lives bring you guys I know that question may have been weird at first, but it was really an underlying worry in me that I needed to let go because of the negative impact it puts on one's life perspective (if you always think it's done after college...shiiiit that's not healthy). Actually, Radeng I'm gladly surprised by how you find it easier to seduce and bang hot girls once you're out of there, can't wait to find out ;p! + you have a better steady income which means better apartment, better nutrition, better body and all the fun stuff

 

[Anonymous]

I'd also add that being relatively young actually can limit your dating pool at times. Some women get really hung up on guys that are young.

For example, I was at a bar last night. I was waiting to get a drink at the bar and two girls pull up and sit in the seats next to me, even though there were plenty of other stools. I took this as an approach invitation. We begin talking, and they start fishing around for my age. It doesn't help that despite being 24, I have a baby face thing going on, and I'm often mistaken for being in high school. Long story short, they're a few years older than me, and as soon as they find out how old I am, I sense the interaction taking a nose dive.

Now mind you, I still had a fun interaction with them, and I knew they were attracted to me. Yet, despite my attempts to disarm their insecurities about age differences, it didn't really change their minds. That's probably the biggest sticking point I've run into as a relatively younger guy coming out of college. When you meet women who are a bit older than you, they tend to shy away, as in women in their later 20s, early 30s.

It's not a big deal, as you're probably going to want to meet women in their early 20s. But meeting slightly older women has been a challenge for me, as they tend to be sensitive about age.

 

[Rage]

The other guys all have great answers and I feel the same way; I reckon it only gets better as you get older. I'm 21 now; I remember being a kid and not being able to wait till I would be the age I am now.

Loved the present but was super eager about the future. I'm the same way thinking about being older in the years to come

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

My results went up and got better after college, I was dating higher quality (better looking) women and my age range increased. Now that said, I feel like college is good for a select number of guys and the main ones being fraternity brothers in the right fraternity (usually one full of rich guys) and athletes. Most other guys in college are struggling when it comes to girls, usually not getting a piece of the action at all. For guys who have it made, they barely have to do much work and they have all the free time in the world in college. The circumstances make it seem like it would be easy but it is only easy for a select few guys, it is exponentially harder for other guys.

One other issue with college is how tight social circles are in college towns, hooking up with someone outside of your circle is highly frowned upon and at times a social life death sentence. It is like high school 2.0 for the most part, because you keep seeing the same people over and over again.

The only thing college has working for it is the time of your life it takes place in and the circumstances, you're fresh out of high school being excited about life and around so many girls who somewhat feel the same way. Unfortunately, it is not that good for easy pussy because girls are tied down to their overbearing social circles that decide what guys they should fuck. No girl wants to be the slut in college and social circles run very tight, it is a major status game.

I've found the real world easier though at times I do wish I could go to college, fuck a lot of college girls, have cool friends, and drink/party like an animal like the jocks and frat boys did.