What’s up guys. I haven’t posted a lay report in quite some time. I was out of town this past weekend visiting family friends and decided to try for some quick date tinder action since we weren’t really doing much Saturday evening.
The groundwork started early in the day Saturday as I was blasting off some messages to 4-5 girls. I was really direct, and let them know real early that I was only in town for the weekend. Ironically, most of the girls seemed interested to meet, but this one girl straight up asked me if I wanted to meet up with her later in the day since I seemed “nice”.
I end up meeting this 21 yr old asian girl at around 8 PM at a college bar near where she lives. My logistics sucked since I was staying with family friends. Also, she said she had to leave at 9PM since she had prior engagements with friends. Since I knew this ahead of time, I planned another meet up with this other girl that seemed really interested to meet. I was planning on meeting the second girl shortly after 9 PM lol. Either way, I just thought it would be good to practice my game and conversation skills.
We greet outside the bar and I give her a hug. We exchange some quick banter and then head inside. The bar was pretty dead like I knew it would be since college was out for the Summer. I learned that she was taking a Summer class and would be heading back to China at the end of the week when her class was done. The conversation was so so. She went paint balling earlier in the day and had some welts on her legs. I made it a point to touch her legs and inquire about them. I forget what exactly I said but I talked about paintball a little bit and told her how I was always a little bitch and hated getting shot when I used to play in my teenage years but it was also really exciting to shoot someone and I was basically saying how I knew she liked taking some frustration out and stress by shooting others, which she laughed at. I said this in a confident tone, not an aww poor me type of way… just trying to relate and be vulnerable.
We stay at the bar for maybe 45 mins and by this time its closing in on 9PM. I tell her that we should take off and walk outside. Across the street there is a stone pathway that leads down the hill to the bottom of the city that follows the stream. We start walking down the path and eventually come upon a stone bench. We sit and chill for a bit and watch the water flow down in front of us. We talk a little more, mainly just talking about the scenery and how its a nice night. Eventually I pull her in for a kiss. It was just a quick kiss, and then we started talking again. She was a little surprised. Its starting to get darker and the people that were walking up from the bottom of the pathway are thinning out. About 10 mins later I pull her in for a make out session. Its already after 9 at this point.
She mentions she has to go so we start to walk back up the pathway. Once we get on even ground again I push her against the wall and start making out with her. I wasn’t really nervous but never did something like that outside so it was new to me. It felt fucking awesome though She was into it and i quickly started kissing her neck and playing with her breasts. I eventually put my hands inside her shirt and play with them and then pull them out and start sucking. She is all into it. My hands then start wandering and I grab her ass and put my hands inside the back of shorts and just rub it. I try to put my hand down her front side but I feel her hand going to grab mine so I pull it out and work my way back to her breasts. It doesn’t take me long to work my way back down and I stick my hand down her pants and start feeling her pussy. I get my fingers in and tell her she is wet. I then start playing with her clit and her legs start to give a little and she uses the wall to hold her self up. I don’t play with her clit too long since I’m not trying to get her off in public that quick lol.
I then take her hand and put it on my hard cock. She rubs it like a good girl. This goes on for probably 20 minutes or so. I tell her I want to fuck her but she's like “No were in public!”. I tell her I know we are but also that it is exciting. She agrees. We eventually stop and she says she has to get going… its almost 10 PM at this point. I didn’t push too hard for sex… I was a little nervous about someone coming even though it was really dark at that point. We start walking again and she says that we can meet up later once she is done hanging with her friends. She tells me to text her my address and she will drive over. I didn’t get too excited about this since I knew it was mostly emotions talking. Either way, I told her I would text her in a little bit.
Mean while… this other girl was texting me asking if she should head down to the bar we were gonna meet at. I hadn;t checked my phone in a while so I told her that dinner was running late and that it probably wont be possible for me to meet her that night. It was at this time that I decided to take a gamble on the asian chick for meeting up later to fuck. This girl was thirsty though and proposed to meet up the next day for coffee lol. Obviously that wasn't gonna happen…
I end up texting the asian girl around 11 PM. She never responds though until the next day. So my gamble failed. Either way, I had a great time and really pushed myself to by overly sexual and bold since I was away. I had a date a few weeks before and I wasn’t sexual enough nor did I attempt to pull her back to my apt so she ended up friend zoning me when I tried to hang out with her again. That left a sour taste in my mouth so I was not going to let that happen again.
Sticking points:
I still need to work on my conversation skills. I consciously deep dive a lot better but it's not as fluid as I would like. Also I have a hard time saying sexual things without it coming off as try hard which is why I feel uncomfortable doing it sometimes.
I felt extra bold since I was out of town. I need to cultivate this mindset when I'm home and taking girls out.
I am not afraid to make a move physically and escalate though. I don't get nervous with that at all. I get more nervous about carrying a convo lol.
The groundwork started early in the day Saturday as I was blasting off some messages to 4-5 girls. I was really direct, and let them know real early that I was only in town for the weekend. Ironically, most of the girls seemed interested to meet, but this one girl straight up asked me if I wanted to meet up with her later in the day since I seemed “nice”.
I end up meeting this 21 yr old asian girl at around 8 PM at a college bar near where she lives. My logistics sucked since I was staying with family friends. Also, she said she had to leave at 9PM since she had prior engagements with friends. Since I knew this ahead of time, I planned another meet up with this other girl that seemed really interested to meet. I was planning on meeting the second girl shortly after 9 PM lol. Either way, I just thought it would be good to practice my game and conversation skills.
We greet outside the bar and I give her a hug. We exchange some quick banter and then head inside. The bar was pretty dead like I knew it would be since college was out for the Summer. I learned that she was taking a Summer class and would be heading back to China at the end of the week when her class was done. The conversation was so so. She went paint balling earlier in the day and had some welts on her legs. I made it a point to touch her legs and inquire about them. I forget what exactly I said but I talked about paintball a little bit and told her how I was always a little bitch and hated getting shot when I used to play in my teenage years but it was also really exciting to shoot someone and I was basically saying how I knew she liked taking some frustration out and stress by shooting others, which she laughed at. I said this in a confident tone, not an aww poor me type of way… just trying to relate and be vulnerable.
We stay at the bar for maybe 45 mins and by this time its closing in on 9PM. I tell her that we should take off and walk outside. Across the street there is a stone pathway that leads down the hill to the bottom of the city that follows the stream. We start walking down the path and eventually come upon a stone bench. We sit and chill for a bit and watch the water flow down in front of us. We talk a little more, mainly just talking about the scenery and how its a nice night. Eventually I pull her in for a kiss. It was just a quick kiss, and then we started talking again. She was a little surprised. Its starting to get darker and the people that were walking up from the bottom of the pathway are thinning out. About 10 mins later I pull her in for a make out session. Its already after 9 at this point.
She mentions she has to go so we start to walk back up the pathway. Once we get on even ground again I push her against the wall and start making out with her. I wasn’t really nervous but never did something like that outside so it was new to me. It felt fucking awesome though She was into it and i quickly started kissing her neck and playing with her breasts. I eventually put my hands inside her shirt and play with them and then pull them out and start sucking. She is all into it. My hands then start wandering and I grab her ass and put my hands inside the back of shorts and just rub it. I try to put my hand down her front side but I feel her hand going to grab mine so I pull it out and work my way back to her breasts. It doesn’t take me long to work my way back down and I stick my hand down her pants and start feeling her pussy. I get my fingers in and tell her she is wet. I then start playing with her clit and her legs start to give a little and she uses the wall to hold her self up. I don’t play with her clit too long since I’m not trying to get her off in public that quick lol.
I then take her hand and put it on my hard cock. She rubs it like a good girl. This goes on for probably 20 minutes or so. I tell her I want to fuck her but she's like “No were in public!”. I tell her I know we are but also that it is exciting. She agrees. We eventually stop and she says she has to get going… its almost 10 PM at this point. I didn’t push too hard for sex… I was a little nervous about someone coming even though it was really dark at that point. We start walking again and she says that we can meet up later once she is done hanging with her friends. She tells me to text her my address and she will drive over. I didn’t get too excited about this since I knew it was mostly emotions talking. Either way, I told her I would text her in a little bit.
Mean while… this other girl was texting me asking if she should head down to the bar we were gonna meet at. I hadn;t checked my phone in a while so I told her that dinner was running late and that it probably wont be possible for me to meet her that night. It was at this time that I decided to take a gamble on the asian chick for meeting up later to fuck. This girl was thirsty though and proposed to meet up the next day for coffee lol. Obviously that wasn't gonna happen…
I end up texting the asian girl around 11 PM. She never responds though until the next day. So my gamble failed. Either way, I had a great time and really pushed myself to by overly sexual and bold since I was away. I had a date a few weeks before and I wasn’t sexual enough nor did I attempt to pull her back to my apt so she ended up friend zoning me when I tried to hang out with her again. That left a sour taste in my mouth so I was not going to let that happen again.
Sticking points:
I still need to work on my conversation skills. I consciously deep dive a lot better but it's not as fluid as I would like. Also I have a hard time saying sexual things without it coming off as try hard which is why I feel uncomfortable doing it sometimes.
I felt extra bold since I was out of town. I need to cultivate this mindset when I'm home and taking girls out.
I am not afraid to make a move physically and escalate though. I don't get nervous with that at all. I get more nervous about carrying a convo lol.
