I accidentally texted her back immediately

[AlphaKing]

Sooo.... yeah I know this is probably against the "standards" that I obsess over one girl
But basically we've had an online relationship 2 years ago, I was still 15 back then
Then we went distant etc... now I will move in the same city where she lives and she wants me to live as near as possible to her
so we "can have sex every 2 hours".

What happened:
I normally take alot to text her back and quit the conversation before her, but lately I made 2 mistakes:
- She closed the conversation (call) last time
- I texted her back immediately when she wrote me "you have the best status" (in whatsapp)

This literally happened right now and I think it turned her off that I responded so quickly,
since she said to me a few days ago "I always hated it when I wanted to talk with you but you always had to leave"
so she obviously falls into the scarcity trap.

What should I do to show that I'm not clingy and that insta-response was just a mistake (which it was)?

 

[HellAtlantic]

Ooof, this post was horrible. I don't care what any of the "experts" think about this - you're overthinking this waaaaay too much. If you think male/female interactions can be based off of who takes longer to reply and who ends convos first you'll never enjoy any girl. Relations aren't paint by numbers. It's not "ooops I have 15 more minutes to wait to reply so that I don't reply too soon". Reply when you want. Dont reply when you can't". Simple. Be busy. Improve your life. Be doing things. Those will prevent you from replying quickly. You sitting at home scratching your stinky nutsac while watching Netflix is not busy and if she reaches out to you reward her for her investment and don't make her artificially wait. The tone of your thread was so hilarious to me. if Leo Dicaprio texted her back quickly cuz he was horny and wanted to put it in her do you think she would lose interest? No. She'd be ecstatic. I just found out what RSD Tyler looks and sounds like. If we live in a world where someone who looks and sounds like him can swim in pussy trust me you responding quickly/not quickly won't be a big thing. I wouldn't respond quickly with long texts every single time but to act like this one instance of immediate reply is the death knell in your interaction with her is silly. Relax bro!