I am going to a date, but she know I have a girlfriend

[Lithuanian]

Hey guys,

I have a girlfriend, but invited the girl that I dated half a year ago for a coffee. She agreed, but asked what's the point to ask for coffee if I have a girlfriend (she saw our pictures on Facebook). I said that I will explain when we meet. What should I say to her when I meet her? Because I want to seduce her and maybe jump ships if the opportunity arises. Should I escalate?

 

[Franco]

Lithuanian,

I think it would be a pretty terrible idea to escalate on her when she (1) knows you already have a girlfriend and (2) has access to your Facebook, and, by association, your girlfriend's Facebook.

Unless you want to expose yourself to the possibility of a whirlwind of chaos and drama, you would be better off not attempting to do such a thing. At the very least, you should remove yourself from Facebook. And if for some reason you're not satisfied with your own girlfriend, you should probably just break up with her and find a girl who meets your standards/desires.

- Franco