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Been a while since I've posted or good LR.
Broke my 3 1/2 month dry spell Saturday. From June-August I focused all my time into working and saving up money for the summer and creating a sales training product for a surf retail business in my home town.
Anyway I've been going out actively for the past month and managed to take home a cute and outgoing girl. Nothing to write home about but here's the story...
Intro + "You! Who the Fuck are you?"
So I went out Saturday night at 12:15PM right after I finished working all day (I work + Study 12 hours a day or more combined)
I went out to meet a friend originally who ended up bailing on me so I ended up showing up to the bar by myself (back to the good ole days). I don't mind I enjoy going out by myself.
I make friends with two guys one is a mechanic living a moderately uninspiring life and his friend is a successful entrepreneur in the Orlando area. We hit it off with each other pretty well and start talking about our aspirations in life.
Out of nowhere some fraternity chode butts into our conversation and starts begging for cigarettes in an extremely drunk and un-calibrated manner. We give him a hard time and tell him he can have a cigarette if he brings us all back shots and then we'll let him hang out with us. He's all excited about the deal and goes on to tell us that he'll bring EVERYONE shots but just let him have a cigarette real quick.
The guy with cigarettes gives him one eventually and he's sort of half way hanging out with us. We then decide to go to the bar and he follows us talking about SHOTS SHOTS SHOTS!!!!
I'm starting to get extremely annoyed. This clown is raising his voice unnecessarily loud, spitting while he's talking, and just isn't a social asset at all. He engages me telling me how awesome SHOTS are going to be.
Here is the conversation that ensues...
Then I turn to disengage him and stare out into space while I wait for my new friends to get their drinks.
About 30 seconds later this white, dirty blonde, and cute faced girl is walking past and we lock eyes for a second and I instantly get the vibe she wants me. Drexel if you're reading this you'd be glad to know I didn't do 20 warm up spam approaches before meeting this girl.
We disengage eye contact and as she walks past me I tap her on the arm. She turns to face me and...
Instantly in Love
This part is cool. For the entire time I've actively started improving myself with women a small part of me has always been in total shock and disbelief when I meet a girl and she doesn't immediately think I am the way, the truth, and the way to eternal life.
Well this girl thought I was Jesus.
Really I just talked about stupid small talk shit, asked about each others necklace accessories (mine is a catholic rosary that I wear even though I'm not catholic), and then we deep dove each other on some school shit.
After about 7 minutes of talking some dude interrupts our shit and she goes crazy to go see him. A lot of times girls will get distracted and it'll be hard to gain her attention back.
I decide to send out a small reminder to her by saying "Ayye! Focus."
She then turns back to me and is compliant to my request as if she forgot and needed to be reminded. We talk some more and then another person comes over says "hi" and she has to talk to. She then informs me she's going to get a drink real quick and for me not to go anywhere as she'll be "right back".
I usually just write this off and go find someone new to talk to but lo and behold about 2 minutes later she comes back not with one but with two beers. One beer for me and one for her. I reward her and but inform her I don't drink which intrigues her to no end.
She MUST find out why I don't drink.
I tell her I'll tell her but she must move with me to a different part of the bar.
So I lead her outside onto the large patio of the bar to talk.
She keeps saying "Oh my god you are so cute!", which quite frankly I hate that adjective but she wasn't saying it in a patronizing way but in a way of awe so I let it slide.
Her pupils are dilated and I can tell she's massively attracted.
I tell her about my philosophy on life and a few other things and she just falls more in love and tells me how awesome I am. Knowing my value scale is getting dangerously close to erring too high I just tell her "I'm not really that cool. I'm just a regular guy trying to figure out what I'm doing on this place."
There is a lot of push/pull, challenging, direct flirtation from both of us, and emotionally connecting deep diving which I typically try to stay away from in nighttime environments.
At one point she's saying something and comes into to kiss me (albeit very drunk attempt) and she catches me slippin'.
I without even thinking about it go in to kiss her and half way to leaning in I realize I've made the wrong choice and need to abort the action immediately... but it's too late. My face is in motion and leaning in closer to hers by the second, bad decision.
Then right before we kiss she pulls her head away teasing me horribly and has full power of the dynamic all of a sudden, and I'm sitting there with my dick in my hand in front of everyone.
I play it off like nothing happened and change the subject but in the back of my mind I'm thinking it's game over I showed my cards and surrendered my power. There's no recovery now.
Well luckily I had alcohol on my side and her flighty ADD nature of being intoxicated led her to not to write off the moment as being a major deal breaker. (I didn't realize how drunk she actually was until we talked in the morning since she was holding her own quite well)
Then I tighten my game up and get her to start investing into the conversation and trying to impress me. This succeeds and she keeps trying to kiss me but I will not let her in which I regain the dynamic and power.
She mentions her friend so I tell her we'll go check on her friend to make sure she's doing okay. (Dominantly making decisions and leading)
They're doing fine and we start talking close to where her friend is.
Soon enough, and I don't know what she meant by this, but she said "What are we still doing here?"
I thought "Good question" and immediately led her towards the exit but she stops me and says "I have to tell me friend first and she has to like you! You need to sell yourself to her"
My response: "I don't sell myself to anyone. Let's go tell your friend we're leaving and will be back in 20 minutes."
We go meet the friend. I dominate the peer group immediately and charm her friend. I tell my girl to tell her that we're leaving and then I promise to the friend I'll take good care of her and have her back in one piece no problem. The friend allows me to take her, albeit a bit reluctantly.
We leave the bar and she tells me how cute I am and I want her to ride on my back so I tell her to get on. She declines but tells me I can ride her later
.
We leave to my house.
Odd adventure then Sex
Long story short, she is complaining that I'm not taking her on an adventure like I promised and I'm just going to take her back to my house.
Sensing adventure I decide to take her on one.
I pull up to my house, go grab a blanket inside, and take her on a walk to a park down the street from my house. The plan is to fuck outside!! Yeah baby.
Well we get to the park and it's brightly lit, there are no good bushes, and the ground is either wet, roots, and rocky. Not as I remembered.
Here I failed and actually took the seduction backwards since there was nowhere to fuck except the open brightly lit park field which I had no interest in.
We make out on the blanket for a bit, talk about sex, and connect deeper. Things are starting to stall out so I lead her back to my place to make some green tea.
Things start picking up pace once we get back inside the house and the sexual tension starts amping back up.
Half way through tea I lead her back to my room where we deep dive each other more and connect more.
She wants to know every little thing about me to no fucking end. I tell her things here and there without spilling the beans about every aspect of myself.
I get tired of talking about myself so I just grab her and start making out with her.
We escalate to sex from there without resistance.
Life's good.
Keep it pimping gents
-Rob
Broke my 3 1/2 month dry spell Saturday. From June-August I focused all my time into working and saving up money for the summer and creating a sales training product for a surf retail business in my home town.
Anyway I've been going out actively for the past month and managed to take home a cute and outgoing girl. Nothing to write home about but here's the story...
Intro + "You! Who the Fuck are you?"
So I went out Saturday night at 12:15PM right after I finished working all day (I work + Study 12 hours a day or more combined)
I went out to meet a friend originally who ended up bailing on me so I ended up showing up to the bar by myself (back to the good ole days). I don't mind I enjoy going out by myself.
I make friends with two guys one is a mechanic living a moderately uninspiring life and his friend is a successful entrepreneur in the Orlando area. We hit it off with each other pretty well and start talking about our aspirations in life.
Out of nowhere some fraternity chode butts into our conversation and starts begging for cigarettes in an extremely drunk and un-calibrated manner. We give him a hard time and tell him he can have a cigarette if he brings us all back shots and then we'll let him hang out with us. He's all excited about the deal and goes on to tell us that he'll bring EVERYONE shots but just let him have a cigarette real quick.
The guy with cigarettes gives him one eventually and he's sort of half way hanging out with us. We then decide to go to the bar and he follows us talking about SHOTS SHOTS SHOTS!!!!
I'm starting to get extremely annoyed. This clown is raising his voice unnecessarily loud, spitting while he's talking, and just isn't a social asset at all. He engages me telling me how awesome SHOTS are going to be.
Here is the conversation that ensues...
Then I turn to disengage him and stare out into space while I wait for my new friends to get their drinks.
About 30 seconds later this white, dirty blonde, and cute faced girl is walking past and we lock eyes for a second and I instantly get the vibe she wants me. Drexel if you're reading this you'd be glad to know I didn't do 20 warm up spam approaches before meeting this girl.
We disengage eye contact and as she walks past me I tap her on the arm. She turns to face me and...
Instantly in Love
This part is cool. For the entire time I've actively started improving myself with women a small part of me has always been in total shock and disbelief when I meet a girl and she doesn't immediately think I am the way, the truth, and the way to eternal life.
Well this girl thought I was Jesus.
Really I just talked about stupid small talk shit, asked about each others necklace accessories (mine is a catholic rosary that I wear even though I'm not catholic), and then we deep dove each other on some school shit.
After about 7 minutes of talking some dude interrupts our shit and she goes crazy to go see him. A lot of times girls will get distracted and it'll be hard to gain her attention back.
I decide to send out a small reminder to her by saying "Ayye! Focus."
She then turns back to me and is compliant to my request as if she forgot and needed to be reminded. We talk some more and then another person comes over says "hi" and she has to talk to. She then informs me she's going to get a drink real quick and for me not to go anywhere as she'll be "right back".
I usually just write this off and go find someone new to talk to but lo and behold about 2 minutes later she comes back not with one but with two beers. One beer for me and one for her. I reward her and but inform her I don't drink which intrigues her to no end.
She MUST find out why I don't drink.
I tell her I'll tell her but she must move with me to a different part of the bar.
So I lead her outside onto the large patio of the bar to talk.
She keeps saying "Oh my god you are so cute!", which quite frankly I hate that adjective but she wasn't saying it in a patronizing way but in a way of awe so I let it slide.
Her pupils are dilated and I can tell she's massively attracted.
I tell her about my philosophy on life and a few other things and she just falls more in love and tells me how awesome I am. Knowing my value scale is getting dangerously close to erring too high I just tell her "I'm not really that cool. I'm just a regular guy trying to figure out what I'm doing on this place."
There is a lot of push/pull, challenging, direct flirtation from both of us, and emotionally connecting deep diving which I typically try to stay away from in nighttime environments.
At one point she's saying something and comes into to kiss me (albeit very drunk attempt) and she catches me slippin'.
I without even thinking about it go in to kiss her and half way to leaning in I realize I've made the wrong choice and need to abort the action immediately... but it's too late. My face is in motion and leaning in closer to hers by the second, bad decision.
Then right before we kiss she pulls her head away teasing me horribly and has full power of the dynamic all of a sudden, and I'm sitting there with my dick in my hand in front of everyone.
I play it off like nothing happened and change the subject but in the back of my mind I'm thinking it's game over I showed my cards and surrendered my power. There's no recovery now.
Well luckily I had alcohol on my side and her flighty ADD nature of being intoxicated led her to not to write off the moment as being a major deal breaker. (I didn't realize how drunk she actually was until we talked in the morning since she was holding her own quite well)
Then I tighten my game up and get her to start investing into the conversation and trying to impress me. This succeeds and she keeps trying to kiss me but I will not let her in which I regain the dynamic and power.
She mentions her friend so I tell her we'll go check on her friend to make sure she's doing okay. (Dominantly making decisions and leading)
They're doing fine and we start talking close to where her friend is.
Soon enough, and I don't know what she meant by this, but she said "What are we still doing here?"
I thought "Good question" and immediately led her towards the exit but she stops me and says "I have to tell me friend first and she has to like you! You need to sell yourself to her"
My response: "I don't sell myself to anyone. Let's go tell your friend we're leaving and will be back in 20 minutes."
We go meet the friend. I dominate the peer group immediately and charm her friend. I tell my girl to tell her that we're leaving and then I promise to the friend I'll take good care of her and have her back in one piece no problem. The friend allows me to take her, albeit a bit reluctantly.
We leave the bar and she tells me how cute I am and I want her to ride on my back so I tell her to get on. She declines but tells me I can ride her later
.We leave to my house.
Odd adventure then Sex
Long story short, she is complaining that I'm not taking her on an adventure like I promised and I'm just going to take her back to my house.
Sensing adventure I decide to take her on one.
I pull up to my house, go grab a blanket inside, and take her on a walk to a park down the street from my house. The plan is to fuck outside!! Yeah baby.
Well we get to the park and it's brightly lit, there are no good bushes, and the ground is either wet, roots, and rocky. Not as I remembered.
Here I failed and actually took the seduction backwards since there was nowhere to fuck except the open brightly lit park field which I had no interest in.
We make out on the blanket for a bit, talk about sex, and connect deeper. Things are starting to stall out so I lead her back to my place to make some green tea.
Things start picking up pace once we get back inside the house and the sexual tension starts amping back up.
Half way through tea I lead her back to my room where we deep dive each other more and connect more.
She wants to know every little thing about me to no fucking end. I tell her things here and there without spilling the beans about every aspect of myself.
I get tired of talking about myself so I just grab her and start making out with her.
We escalate to sex from there without resistance.
Life's good.
Keep it pimping gents
-Rob
