I don't know what leads up to sex (how guys get girls in bed with them).

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Sorry for the repetitiveness girlschase but now that my mindset is clear, I want to focus on the fundamentals. As a 21 yr old virgin, I don't know how guys get laid.

Like okay:

1. You go up to a girl you like
2. You get to know her
3. Maybe you ask her for her number
4. She gives you her number
5. I am lost after this point

I ask girls out on dates and they always end up flaking (typical college girls, I read Chase's article on girls flaking too).

Like after she gives you her number (say in a college setting), what scenarios lead to sex?

I feel better mentally but due to being inexperienced with women, I am completely clueless about how to finally get to the point where we are fucking.

Right now in my situation

1. I live away from campus in an apartment by myself
2. Am a kissless 21 yr old virgin who has recently recovered from having a negative mindset/poisonous beliefs about women
3. I am completely clueless on what leads up to two people having sex, like what happens before a guy finally has a girl in bed with him and they fuck....

 

[Raqimus]

Man it looks like your just asking the same thing multiple ways. Read the site it has the answers college situtations apply to "real life" ones outside of college.
Read https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-g ... -her-yours and https://www.girlschase.com/content/escalation-windows and https://www.girlschase.com/content/take- ... escalation and https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-g ... every-date

I am like you a college student. I have used this it works. It is the same. For example I met a girl we were both students. We got hot chocolate, I kept persisting quite obviously to go back to her place, she flat out said no were not going back to her place. We ended up going back to her place. Took my shoes off, we laid in the bed and watched a movie. I said fuck it if I don't do it now I wont do it and went for a random kiss. It worked madeout etc. Didnt lead to sex because I fucked up but had i known what i learned after all that It would have been sealed.

It's just a process. Like kiss her face, neck massage her arms , work towards the breast work towards the legs then go for the pussy. Theres a post with the order lined out with some girls you can skip a few and you may have to take a step back to move forward. Hope this helps.

 

[Desert Eagle]

Read Lay Reports, every single one of them tells you how guys get girls in bed with them.

By the way, I think everyone knows you're a virgin. It's like, the first thing you mention in every single post you've ever made on here.

 

[Inferno]

alt, the time that you have is the time that you have
no one can change that,
don't use your age when describing nature

seduction is like a painting
you cant rush it or you'll fuck up
and no matter how many times you try you'll get nowhere
because you need patience
maybe in 3-4 months of actually approaching and overcoming your inner demons
you can get enough girls approached that even probability will be on your side to get laid.



See, I can really relate to some of the questions you ask, but IDK why you keep this up, I'd suggest taking a break from GC, and have a personal experience.
Look at people, watch guys escalate in school, or at the club. Cold approach those college cuties.
Well
even if you don't
those five percent of men who get the girls
will be there to comfort women
those girls you had a crush on since middle school
your closest female friends
your female teachers
your sisters
and even your girlfriend