I feel disgusted by women who sleep around

[GeneralFap]

I'm not into the whole madonna-whore complex thing, I know that all girls like sex; however I feel disgusted by the fact that most girls in the west are sleeping around like crazy now-a-days. I feel like any woman who's slept with like more 3 partners is too much. I literally feel fucking sick to my stomach thinking about how many men these girls have slept with. I thought the whole thing about American women being too promiscuous for relationship/marriage material was bullshit, however now I realize that its fucking true. Moving to a more conservative country is probably the most viable option. I have no problem sleeping with these girls, however, I feel like starting a relationship with them is not an option.

 

[ray_zorse]

How is that not a Madonna/whore complex, I thought that was the definition?

With that attitude, all that will happen is girls won't trust you, even in a conservative country they're still sleeping around like crazy, it's just that you'll never find out. A dude posted a great story just recently, not sure of the link, but he said he picked up a girl who engaged in lots of rough, slutty sex with him, I think he took her up the arse or similar and she absolutely loved it... he was discussing it with a friend the following day who said "ohh no, my girl is pure... she would never do anything like that"... well it later transpired they were talking about the same girl (who had obviously cheated on her boyfriend to have the rough slutty sex). So my point in relating this to you, is even if you manage to find your Madonna, it's really just an illusion, you're fooling yourself that she isn't simultaneously a total slut!

Ray

 

[Richard]

Most guys who feel like this are often sexually inexperienced, or are in search of a "real" relationship with the girl of their dreams. As the notches on my belt went up, my attitude about this issue went down tons.

I realize that not every guy is the same but the trend in changing attitudes as a result of sexual experience is pretty spot-on. The best relationships I've had were with girls whose partner counts were 9+ and I remained in control of the relationship. The problem here is not the girls, it's your attitude and beliefs about them.

Plus, as Ray said. This trend does not change anywhere you go, it might be hidden better but the trend doesn't change because women through and through are roughly the same and operate on the same bases as other women. If American women sleep around, it's because they're women not American, if Asian women sleep around, it's not because they're Asian but because they're women. Again, it's your attitude about this that needs to change because women are always going to crave the dick and seek it out from men with value =)

-Richard

 

[Anonymous]

Not all women are as promiscuous as you think.

There are a lot of women who have had multiple partners, yes, but there are women who have relatively low partner counts as well. But then again, it's really hard to really know how many partners they've had, as it's a secret they tend to keep very close to their heart... and even if they are forthcoming with you, they'll often lie about their partner count... Like J. Cole said, if she said she "only ****ed 4 or 5... you know you gotta multiply by 3".

Most women actually do have relatively low partner counts. Only a small percentage of the population of women will have higher partner counts. But again... impossible to know exactly. Women lie about these kinds of things. It's about reputation and preserving that virginal maiden image in men's heads.

Although I will say this: men and women with higher partner counts tend to have a higher rate of infidelity and also have a warped view of relationships and commitment. I've dated women who have... experience and they tend to be a lot more loose and lax about commitment. They don't have the same fairy-tale, naivete regarding love and relationships, but they also tend to be more willing to throw relationships at the drop of a hat if you're not giving them the stimulation they need. Very fickle creatures indeed.

 

[Richard]

Not all women are as promiscuous as you think.

There are a lot of women who have had multiple partners, yes, but there are women who have relatively low partner counts as well. But then again, it's really hard to really know how many partners they've had, as it's a secret they tend to keep very close to their heart... and even if they are forthcoming with you, they'll often lie about their partner count... Like J. Cole said, if she said she "only ****ed 4 or 5... you know you gotta multiply by 3".

Most women actually do have relatively low partner counts. Only a small percentage of the population of women will have higher partner counts. But again... impossible to know exactly. Women lie about these kinds of things. It's about reputation and preserving that virginal maiden image in men's heads.

Although I will say this: men and women with higher partner counts tend to have a higher rate of infidelity and also have a warped view of relationships and commitment. I've dated women who have... experience and they tend to be a lot more loose and lax about commitment. They don't have the same fairy-tale, naivete regarding love and relationships, but they also tend to be more willing to throw relationships at the drop of a hat if you're not giving them the stimulation they need. Very fickle creatures indeed.

And this is the beauty of dating women with high partner counts I loves me a good challenge.

 

[Maxxz]

I'm just gonna flatly say this: With an attitude like this you won't fuck many girls, or any girl at all.

Keep thinking girls are meant to be saints, they shouldn't want the D because it makes them sluts or some other bullshit mainstream society pushes out there.

There's nothing wrong with girls who sleep around, just like there's nothing wrong with guys who fuck around.

Get this through your skull. Sex is great. And more power to any girl getting it.

And why'd you want to know your partners sex count anyway? It's just insecurity.

 

[GeneralFap]

I never said girls should be virginal saints. I meant I wouldn't get into a relationship with one of she's slept around too much because of the ick factor. I know that girls around the world have the same desires, however I live in a culture that encourages women to have lots of casual sex, there are other cultures out there that do not do the same, and as we all know, most women behave how their culture tells them to. I have probably never called a woman a slut in my life. I talk to girls and try to stay as non-judgmental as possible, but once I hear they have engaged in too much crazy shit, they're not relationship material in my eyes.

I never said they can't sleep around, if they want to do so they can, it's their lives. It's more like I am acknowledging the fact that they do, but I just won't get into a committed relationship with them. It's all about reducing my chances of ending up with a girl who isn't right for an LTR. ALL of the girls that I know that have slept with more than 20+ are fucked in the head and have cheated on their husband's/boyfriend's. It's not a question of if, but of when.