FR  I found my sticking point

Dr.X

Space Monkey
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I read that tracking something improves result. So in April I logged all my approaches in a spread sheet to see where is the sticking point. As following:
  • Approaches: 103
  • Girl stopped and talked: 62
  • Short conversations: 28
  • Phone number: 1
The sticking point is from conversations to phone number / instant date. So in May I'm going to practice to ask for 3+ light compliance.

One example is this approach when I got out of the restroom in a mall, and saw a woman waiting in line for the restroom:
Me: Hi, you have nice tattoo
Her: Thank you
Me: Where did you get it?
Her: My friend made it
Me: What’s your name?
Her: (blah blah)
Me: Nice to meet you (extending hands)
She put out a finger.
Me: Pinky swear
She smiled.
Me: You must have a girly drink
Her: Yes
The line moved up. She went into the restroom. I could have asked her to stay.
 
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