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Last summer I started seeing this girl and took her virginity in my social circle.
Two weeks ago I was out with a large group of girls, having a ball, and being very flirty with everyone. The girl was there, and about halfway through the adventure I started chatting with her - she just broke up with her boyfriend (she started dating the guy after last summer). Long story short I made out with her, told her we were gonna fuck, and got rejected because she didn't want to leave her friends. It was one of their birthdays at the bar.
Last weekend, I'm out with my buddy and we're bar hopping, and we stumble into this group of girls from the same social circle. One of them is a very high value girl.. I've been crushing on this chick since I met her in middle school. She was sitting next to me, touching her legs into mine (among other IOI's), and we were having a great conversation.
I was feeling ballsy, and even though I knew she was really tight with the girl I had just tried to fuck, asked her if she was single. She wasn't. Shortly after she started testing me to see how drunk I was. My buddy who was smashed had just dropped a glass at the bar, too, so they probably thought we were all hammered. Attraction was fleeting and shortly after the girls left the bar (not stormed out, just said their goodbyes).
Not sure how many of you dudes have email subscriptions to Chase's Date like a King series, but I happened to get a miscellaneous email about giving girls satisfaction too quickly two days after it happened. How a girl can be attracted and chasing, which makes you go against your intuition and tell her what she's asking you rather than be vague or game, and how this makes attraction evaporate. Now the girl is satisfied, and you haven't even fucked her.
Makes sense, but reading that right after my experience helped my ripe brain be more impacted by it. Now I know to be vague, deflect, ask for compliance, and reward compliance with compliments or deep diving after doing so.
With the 1st girl, since I already fucked her, I should have just waited till after bars / set up a booty call rather than giving her a taste of me after not having me for so long.
With the 2nd girl, I should have let attraction build to higher atmospheres (since she's so high value), and only busted a move in isolation, rather than be so clear about my interest.
Now, if I do lose both girls, whatever. That's too bad.
What that might do to me though, is create/strengthen a player/manwhore frame. Like I'm just running around sticking my dick in everything.
I already have it among guys in my social circles who have begun asking me more and more about women and my adventures with them.
Problem is, this could be damaging to my social circle game, which has a decently large market of high value girls, as well as my reputation in general. I'm worried that rumors will circulate now that schools out, and my opportunities to capitalize in that market will be diminished.
Thoughts? It hasn't happened yet, but paranoia has me thinking a storm is brewing.
Any ways to be proactive about this?
Hueman
Two weeks ago I was out with a large group of girls, having a ball, and being very flirty with everyone. The girl was there, and about halfway through the adventure I started chatting with her - she just broke up with her boyfriend (she started dating the guy after last summer). Long story short I made out with her, told her we were gonna fuck, and got rejected because she didn't want to leave her friends. It was one of their birthdays at the bar.
Last weekend, I'm out with my buddy and we're bar hopping, and we stumble into this group of girls from the same social circle. One of them is a very high value girl.. I've been crushing on this chick since I met her in middle school. She was sitting next to me, touching her legs into mine (among other IOI's), and we were having a great conversation.
I was feeling ballsy, and even though I knew she was really tight with the girl I had just tried to fuck, asked her if she was single. She wasn't. Shortly after she started testing me to see how drunk I was. My buddy who was smashed had just dropped a glass at the bar, too, so they probably thought we were all hammered. Attraction was fleeting and shortly after the girls left the bar (not stormed out, just said their goodbyes).
Not sure how many of you dudes have email subscriptions to Chase's Date like a King series, but I happened to get a miscellaneous email about giving girls satisfaction too quickly two days after it happened. How a girl can be attracted and chasing, which makes you go against your intuition and tell her what she's asking you rather than be vague or game, and how this makes attraction evaporate. Now the girl is satisfied, and you haven't even fucked her.
Makes sense, but reading that right after my experience helped my ripe brain be more impacted by it. Now I know to be vague, deflect, ask for compliance, and reward compliance with compliments or deep diving after doing so.
With the 1st girl, since I already fucked her, I should have just waited till after bars / set up a booty call rather than giving her a taste of me after not having me for so long.
With the 2nd girl, I should have let attraction build to higher atmospheres (since she's so high value), and only busted a move in isolation, rather than be so clear about my interest.
Now, if I do lose both girls, whatever. That's too bad.
What that might do to me though, is create/strengthen a player/manwhore frame. Like I'm just running around sticking my dick in everything.
I already have it among guys in my social circles who have begun asking me more and more about women and my adventures with them.
Problem is, this could be damaging to my social circle game, which has a decently large market of high value girls, as well as my reputation in general. I'm worried that rumors will circulate now that schools out, and my opportunities to capitalize in that market will be diminished.
Thoughts? It hasn't happened yet, but paranoia has me thinking a storm is brewing.
Any ways to be proactive about this?
Hueman
