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INTRO
I was doing yearly review today and the most important realization from that year that even thought the quantity was the same like the last year, EVERYTHING got so much easier. Truly speaking I did VERY, VERY little cold approach or online game this year, and I got almost the same number of lays as last year.
Today was the perfect confirmation on WHAT HAS CHANGED this year when it comes to my game.
To sum up, MY PROCESS HAS BECOME MUCH MORE CONSISTENT AND SO DID MY RESULTS.
APPROACH
I went out to a food court downtown. It's a food court with a large bar in the middle of it.
Since I didn't go out much recently, I got pretty rusty with my approaching. But as the time showed, I didn't even have to approach today.
I ordered a drink at the bar, started scrolling on my phone a little bit, and started reading some field report from Skilled Seducer, when I got approached by this cute fatty.
I was kind of in the ambivalent mood. The positive thing about my yearly review was that my exorted efforts to get laid went down BIG TIME. In other words I got much more efficient. On the other hand, I was slightly disappointed that my numbers didn't go up comparing to last year.
And this chick was a direct beneficiary of my slightly bruised seducer ego
Either way, I gave her the chance to roll with me tonight.
COMFORT BUILDING
We spoke at the bar for about 45 minutes max. She had two drinks, I had one. There was some light kino but most importantly I was gauging what is going on with her based on her body language and her interactions with other people.
Firstly, she strictly followed my body language, which was a sign of compliance
Secondly, some chode who was looking for their common friends, came over and started asking her questions, she was very direct to let him go, telling him that she's bailed out of the other event
PULLING
After about 45 minutes, I thought that I will attempt to pull. Pulling is a thing I'm practicing consciously these days (specifically ABC mentality). I decided that either I'm gonna attempt a pull now, and if she complies, we gonna go fuck. Or, if she bails I would eject.
She was telling me something about some movie. I took this topic as a potential plausible deniability to be created. I asked her to tell me what her favorite movie was. After she told me, I started asking more detailed questions, why she likes this particular movie, etc. When she told me this, I told her that it is indeed an interesting movie and I that I would like to see it myself.
After some logistical questions, I asked her if she would like to watch this movie at my place, because Netflix happens to have it in their catalogue. She said yes. Cool, I've ordered uber and were out in the next 10-15 minutes.
ISOLATION
At home I played completely normal and comfort-type of guy as always. Showed her around a bit, served drinks and we started watching the movie. When we were watching the movie I started escalating on her, and she went for full intercourse with zero resistance.
In total probably anything between 90-120 minutes from being approached to getting laid.
SOMETHING INTERESTING
When we were in bed, she asked me if I do this type of thing often. I heard this question before but always BEFORE sex, never AFTER.
Another conundrum was that she didn't want to fuck again. We were watching a movie in my living room, I started undressing her, pulled my cock out, and put her hand on my cock. She was stroking it and I was licking her boobs, but she didn't want to fuck. She gave me some lame excuse that she is feeling sleepy from watching the movie. I didn't kiss her during this second escalation. I'm wondering if this was the reason. I actually had this situation before few times that a chick would be at my place, but she would refuse to fuck if I didn't kiss her during the foreplay.
POST SEX TALK
She stayed over at my place for another 2 hours. We finished watching the movie and talked about life etc. She told me that today was unusual adventure to her, and that she usually keeps a normal routine. The most important thing for me from this conversation was that she felt genuinely happy about the experience. I specifically asked about that and if she felt that she made all the good decisions tonight. She said yes and yest, which was really cool. That's how I want to keep it going forward. Win-win for both sides.
I was doing yearly review today and the most important realization from that year that even thought the quantity was the same like the last year, EVERYTHING got so much easier. Truly speaking I did VERY, VERY little cold approach or online game this year, and I got almost the same number of lays as last year.
Today was the perfect confirmation on WHAT HAS CHANGED this year when it comes to my game.
To sum up, MY PROCESS HAS BECOME MUCH MORE CONSISTENT AND SO DID MY RESULTS.
APPROACH
I went out to a food court downtown. It's a food court with a large bar in the middle of it.
Since I didn't go out much recently, I got pretty rusty with my approaching. But as the time showed, I didn't even have to approach today.
I ordered a drink at the bar, started scrolling on my phone a little bit, and started reading some field report from Skilled Seducer, when I got approached by this cute fatty.
I was kind of in the ambivalent mood. The positive thing about my yearly review was that my exorted efforts to get laid went down BIG TIME. In other words I got much more efficient. On the other hand, I was slightly disappointed that my numbers didn't go up comparing to last year.
And this chick was a direct beneficiary of my slightly bruised seducer ego
Either way, I gave her the chance to roll with me tonight.
COMFORT BUILDING
We spoke at the bar for about 45 minutes max. She had two drinks, I had one. There was some light kino but most importantly I was gauging what is going on with her based on her body language and her interactions with other people.
Firstly, she strictly followed my body language, which was a sign of compliance
Secondly, some chode who was looking for their common friends, came over and started asking her questions, she was very direct to let him go, telling him that she's bailed out of the other event
PULLING
After about 45 minutes, I thought that I will attempt to pull. Pulling is a thing I'm practicing consciously these days (specifically ABC mentality). I decided that either I'm gonna attempt a pull now, and if she complies, we gonna go fuck. Or, if she bails I would eject.
She was telling me something about some movie. I took this topic as a potential plausible deniability to be created. I asked her to tell me what her favorite movie was. After she told me, I started asking more detailed questions, why she likes this particular movie, etc. When she told me this, I told her that it is indeed an interesting movie and I that I would like to see it myself.
After some logistical questions, I asked her if she would like to watch this movie at my place, because Netflix happens to have it in their catalogue. She said yes. Cool, I've ordered uber and were out in the next 10-15 minutes.
ISOLATION
At home I played completely normal and comfort-type of guy as always. Showed her around a bit, served drinks and we started watching the movie. When we were watching the movie I started escalating on her, and she went for full intercourse with zero resistance.
In total probably anything between 90-120 minutes from being approached to getting laid.
SOMETHING INTERESTING
When we were in bed, she asked me if I do this type of thing often. I heard this question before but always BEFORE sex, never AFTER.
Another conundrum was that she didn't want to fuck again. We were watching a movie in my living room, I started undressing her, pulled my cock out, and put her hand on my cock. She was stroking it and I was licking her boobs, but she didn't want to fuck. She gave me some lame excuse that she is feeling sleepy from watching the movie. I didn't kiss her during this second escalation. I'm wondering if this was the reason. I actually had this situation before few times that a chick would be at my place, but she would refuse to fuck if I didn't kiss her during the foreplay.
POST SEX TALK
She stayed over at my place for another 2 hours. We finished watching the movie and talked about life etc. She told me that today was unusual adventure to her, and that she usually keeps a normal routine. The most important thing for me from this conversation was that she felt genuinely happy about the experience. I specifically asked about that and if she felt that she made all the good decisions tonight. She said yes and yest, which was really cool. That's how I want to keep it going forward. Win-win for both sides.
