I got blocked by my crush. Should I give up?

[batman12]

I met this girl that I’m crazy about! When we met, it was instant chemistry for me. Idk it sounds crazy but to me, it was love at first sight.

The crazy part is that later on, I was looking at her instagram and I realized that she’s even more awesome than I realized. LoL a long time ago, I made a list of all the things that I’m looking for in a lady and she checked off every box! This may sound dumb but both the emotional side of my brain and the logical side are crazy about this girl.

But I think I fucked up. I straight up messaged her that I have a crush on her and that we should be bffs. She then blocked me :/

In hindsight, I should’ve messaged her some more and gone on a few dates before telling her that I like her, but too late now I guess. I tried messaging her friend but she didn’t respond :/ TBH I’m just hoping we run into each other again because I’m a lot better in person than I am over text. Doubtful it'll happen though, considering how large my university is. But even then, I think that she's moved on.

Just wondering if any of you guys have ever been blocked? And were you ever able to turn things around?

 

[TomInHo]

You need to be talking to more girls man. Love at first sight is real but when you get more experience with girls you will learn that she's never as amazing as your initial impression of her, especially once the honey period wears off

Therefore it only makes sense to keep those emotions to yourself, enjoy her company and keep your options open

P.S Vomiting your emotions unto a girl you just met rarely works, because it puts unnecessary pressure on the situation and kills intrigue. Because for women to truly fall in love, they also need to feel a little bit out of control

 

[ulrich]

In short, yes.

You used an all or nothing strategy and got nothing in result.
Can’t come back from this one.

Next.

 

[StrayDog]

Ditch the oneitis. Up your game. I've more abundantly. The strategy you used on this one has very low odds of success. Switch strategies next time. Use strategies proven to be more successful. You are young. Plenty of time to meet similar, if not better, women. Be patient with the process. You got this dude. Just keep getting out there and growing your skill set.

 

[Lover]

LoL a long time ago, I made a list of all the things that I’m looking for in a lady and she checked off every box! This may sound dumb but both the emotional side of my brain and the logical side are crazy about this girl.

She's just a girl though. She still goes to the bathroom to get rid of huge dumps and bleeds for a week every month.

I straight up messaged her that I have a crush on her and that we should be bffs.

Just WTF at this. The crush thing I can understand somewhat. But bffs? Really? Stop saying that until you're advanced.

I tried messaging her friend but she didn’t respond

Creep alert. Don't be the creepy guy. If she blocks you, move on and learn from your mistakes. Your chances got below 0 when you did this since her friend will tell her without doubt.