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Sup GC homies, got friendzoned.
Saw a cute girl in class, decided to sit beside her. Got her number and found out she has a boyfriend. Let's call her Zoey.
Everytime Zoey sees me walk in class she always tells me to come sit beside me.
Her and her bf break up about a week ago (unfortunately I am no bobby schmurda)
So I see now it's my chance, and last friday and ask her to come to the movies with me, she pretty much ignores my question
Then an hour later in class Zoey then asks what time the movie is and I say and Zoey then doesnt reply. And then finally class ends, wow most awkward hour and a half of my life -_-
Then next class I sit beside Zoey, don't want to seem butthurt like whatever, plenty of fish in the sea right guys? So what if one doesn't like me. So as soon as I sit down she tells me she's having another party next friday and invites me to come and I say yes.
She always texts in class and when she gets a text her lockscreen/screen saver shows and its her kissing a new guy. Didn't she and her ex just break up? Talk about abundance mentality, but I guess every girl has abundance mentality
Can't lie I got a bit jealous seeing that
but I did not act bitter/resentful anyways while beside her. I look around the class and see a really hot girl, let's call her Amy (I don't even know her name), I'm gonna try and approach her tomorow at the end of class.
Should I even go to Zoey's party next week? I mean I'm clearly friendzoned, and why would I want to watch her and her new bf make out all day? I won't know anyone there except her and I clearly won't be going balls deep inside her that night, so what's the point?
Also, should I still keep sitting with Zoey, I want to go sit with Amy, but it would seem very butthurt if I stop sitting with the first girl after a rejection and I'm sure the Amy will know thats the reason Im trying to sit with her, even if she doesn't know I got rejected, since girls are usually way more socially calibrated than guys.
So my thoughts on my mistakes, I went to slow when I found out Zoey had a bf, sitting beside her in class chatting with her is not what a lover does but a friend, so not surprised I got friendzoned looking back.
I don't think it would be wise to sit beside Amy, I'll probably just end up friendzoning myself again and I will also look butthurt to Zoey, I'll just approach Amy at the end of class and ask her number and a date. Maybe the first girl will look like good preselection for the second girl?
Your thoughts or any pointers/advice you wanna give me? Comment away!
Saw a cute girl in class, decided to sit beside her. Got her number and found out she has a boyfriend. Let's call her Zoey.
Everytime Zoey sees me walk in class she always tells me to come sit beside me.
Her and her bf break up about a week ago (unfortunately I am no bobby schmurda)
So I see now it's my chance, and last friday and ask her to come to the movies with me, she pretty much ignores my question
Then an hour later in class Zoey then asks what time the movie is and I say and Zoey then doesnt reply. And then finally class ends, wow most awkward hour and a half of my life -_-
Then next class I sit beside Zoey, don't want to seem butthurt like whatever, plenty of fish in the sea right guys? So what if one doesn't like me. So as soon as I sit down she tells me she's having another party next friday and invites me to come and I say yes.
She always texts in class and when she gets a text her lockscreen/screen saver shows and its her kissing a new guy. Didn't she and her ex just break up? Talk about abundance mentality, but I guess every girl has abundance mentality
Can't lie I got a bit jealous seeing that
Should I even go to Zoey's party next week? I mean I'm clearly friendzoned, and why would I want to watch her and her new bf make out all day? I won't know anyone there except her and I clearly won't be going balls deep inside her that night, so what's the point?
Also, should I still keep sitting with Zoey, I want to go sit with Amy, but it would seem very butthurt if I stop sitting with the first girl after a rejection and I'm sure the Amy will know thats the reason Im trying to sit with her, even if she doesn't know I got rejected, since girls are usually way more socially calibrated than guys.
So my thoughts on my mistakes, I went to slow when I found out Zoey had a bf, sitting beside her in class chatting with her is not what a lover does but a friend, so not surprised I got friendzoned looking back.
I don't think it would be wise to sit beside Amy, I'll probably just end up friendzoning myself again and I will also look butthurt to Zoey, I'll just approach Amy at the end of class and ask her number and a date. Maybe the first girl will look like good preselection for the second girl?
Your thoughts or any pointers/advice you wanna give me? Comment away!