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I Had A Fight With My Wingman (rant)

nexus321

Space Monkey
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Warning, this is a rant.

Okay so here is the thing. I got invited to a cool party (lots of pretty girls will be there) and I told him that instead of clubbing he should join me at the party. But then he throws a hissy fit and keeps sending me message after message on facebook about how we should be gaming every day and every night. I told him dude, let's just game at the party. But he just ignores it. I think the real reason behind this is he's socially weird and can't handle groups or something.

He's not fun to hang around, he never laughs (he says he doesn't like to laugh...I'm not kidding!) all he talks about nonstop is RSD and what Tyler and Julien preach on their youtube channel. It's been like this for over 1 year. He has no job (never had one, and doesn't want one) he doesn't even have a drivers license (he's 35).

What am I supposed to do? Not hangout with my friends? Fuck that, I feel like he's trying to control me and monopolize my time. There aren't many wingmen to chose from here and that's why I hang with him. If it wasn't for game I doubt I would even talk to him. I keep hearing from my friends how weird he is.

One time I was hanging with them in a nightclub and we were chilling having a good time. And all he was doing was sulking and bitching about how I should ditch them and game. I ended up listening to him that night, only to find out that my friends were upset when I left. But I told them that he was throwing a hissy fit, and if you're wondering why do I put up with this guy. It's because If I want to be good with women and have abundance I need someone to push me and so far this guy is the only wingman in town (yeah the town is that small)


And the thing is when we do daygame, according to him we have to be constantly walking. We can't just stand and wait as people walk by and then approach them. No! We have to walk for 3 hours non stop. And if I take a break this psycho snaps. Imagine that, walking/jogging 3 hours every day without a break, it's exhausting. I have this thing called a job, to him a job is a myth. I'm always exhausted at work because of this. plus as many of you know, I'm studying animation and it's hard work. When I get home I'm so tired that I just don't have the mental energy to follow a 5 hour tutorial.

I need to prioritize my future. It's as simple as that if he can't except that I have to either push myself or find a replacement.
 

Mr.Rob

Modern Human
Modern Human
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why the fuck do you need a wingman anyway Nexus?

if this guy is such a hassle and drain on you emotionally and clearly doesn't give a fuck about your needs/wants (game! game! game!) why still hang with him when all you get is a little push to go approach women.

Myself along with many others here have never had a "wingman" and in fact there's a ton of advantages to not having one.

Sounds like this guy is pimping you homie. Don't get pimped.

-Rob
 
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