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"I have a BF": make it clear you're no friend or get them out?

lux7

Cro-Magnon Man
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I was wondering, one can find himself in situations where a girl is interested in you and possibly in meeting again but says "I have a BF".

Would it be better to make it clear you're not in for a friendship or would it be better to get her out and try to change her mind once out?
 

ocantu1987

Space Monkey
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From what I have read, you should act like it doesn't faze you.

Her: I have a boyfriend.
You:That's nice. Anyway about that game blah blah blah.

Her:I have a boyfriend.
You:We have just met and you are already telling me your problems gee ;)

Her:I have a boyfriend.
You:Great! he can give you something to do when I am not around ;)
 

lux7

Cro-Magnon Man
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Yeah, but if she mentions it when you're proposing to go out than you're at a rather high danger of booking yourself for a "new friends" evening when nothing's gonna happen... Then I'd rather use that time for friends, reading, a movie or you name it..
 
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