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I have a severe crush on my hairstylist!

Pedro P

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What do I do?

I recently started going to her since I am growing my hair out long and the barber doesn’t cut longer hair. I went in Friday to get some advice on hair (styling) product and she greeted me with this sensual hug - which I did not expect - in which she squished her breasts against my chest really hard and pulled me in aggressively… I totally made me erect!

She’s sexy as Fuck. 5’10 athletic with a unique look because she’s from Mexico City. I told her about the product I got, and she pointed to some product the salon sells called - “Hey There Tiger.” I commented - “Well, that’s kinda suggestive…” She chuckled.” Then she explained how I’m supposed to use the product I already have. I called her a hair scientist.

So last time she did my hair I asked about picky customers and she instead began to tell me about a former customer who became a stalker. I was like whooah! And Just listened. - This is creepy, and I'm super sensitive to being called a creep, especially when starting out with day game cold approaches - and being totally awkward - several initial chicks accused me of being a creep or creepy. Gotta fall down before you can walk, right!
Now I open, and I don't even know I open, I just start a conversation with a hott chick...

Anyway, within the story she explained that she has a serious boyfriend who is half Mexican, half Black and use to be a gangbanger in Oakland. Whereas she looks European with white skin and dresses like a fashion model.
Cool, whatever…

Anyway I tipped her well, cuz she did a good job, no different than when I tipped the barber when he did my hair. But I got this weird feeling with her even though this is supposed to be a totally professional relationship solely about styling my hair.

Friday I told her I’d see her in a couple weeks, and left it there. But I don’t want to have to leave her cuz things get weird with this
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

mirror

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Hmm, do you or do you not have problems with her having a boyfriend?

- If you do: i think you should express to her that you find het attractive and jokingly tell her backhanded that she could be your type, minus the boyfriend. (Smth flirty enough to show her she should break it off asap but that you are not weak / hungup on her)

- if you dont, turn it into an instant date the next time you "accidently" bump into her. You perhaps know by now how to do that?
 

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she instead began to tell me about a former customer who became a stalker
I don’t want to have to leave her cuz things get weird with this
in addition to a hairdresser, she may also be a fortune teller..

On a more serious note: You simply lightly flirt, casually tease and deep dive her while she's cutting your hair next, treating it like an informational instadate, then if she's complying and positive about the experience invite her out to do something easy with you (coffee, lunch, a drink - ask this while in conversation with her, not via text or on some later date when you muster up the courage). If she turns it down, leave it alone and keep visiting her for haircuts like nothing happened, casual and friendly as before..

No guarantee anything comes of it, but it's better than stewing over some crush and building an obsession..
 
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