I have gyno...no point in trying to sleep with girls?

[GeneralFap]

Ok, so I've been reading this website for quite a while now. I have learned a lot and have implemented some of the things here (I've asked girls out, I've cold approached, made more friends), but every time I see myself without a shirt on I become discouraged because I have these puffy ass nipples sticking out of my chest. Gynecomastia has made me too afraid to take off my shirt in front of others (every time my friends invite me to the beach or a water park I always make up some bullshit excuse because I'm too afraid to take off my shirt and have them laugh at me). I worked out for almost 3 years, building muscle and getting lean. And although I've made some good gains and gotten healthy, my gyno remains the same size. It sucks because I want to be able to sleep with girls but at the same time I feel like it will be all be a waste of time because I won't even be able to take off my shirt in front of them. It's frustrating as f*ck. I'm 20 right now and I don't think it's necessary to tell you that I'm still a virgin. I've had to deny 4 girls sex because I just do not feel comfortable taking my shirt off (and if I don't take it off, then I will just look like a weirdo by keeping it on).
I was thinking of just waiting until I get surgery. The only thing is, it's expensive as hell and it will be years until I'll be able to amass that much money. What should I do?

 

[Thinkingenigma]

At the risk of pointing out the obvious, if you're that worried about it, just don't take off your shirt. Though honestly, at the point where you're getting down and dirty, most girls aren't going to say anything about puffy nipples. I've got a horrible looking birthmark on my chest, but I've never had anyone mention it during sex. The best thing you can do is to not let it hold you back. If a girl stops during sex because you have large nipples, she's a bitch. Fortunately for us, most girls aren't like that. In fact, when the topic of my birthmark DOES come up, it' usually provides a bonding moment since they know something private about me that most other people don't know. Bottom line, don't sweat it. Happy hunting!

 

[Ross]

I'm pretty sure most of us have some weird body thing. Personally, I've got 3 nipples. Girls poke fun at it, but I've never really cared about it.

As with all minor body image issues, you're going to have to realize that gyno really doesn't matter that much. Certainly not worth giving up sex for the fear that some girl will laugh at you (the horror!).

Once you realize that it's a problem with fear, then you've just got to vanquish that fear. Work your way up to being comfortable with your shirt off slowly but surely.

 

[Doctor]

Most girls are far more worried what they look like during sex than what you look like.

 

[Mr. oblivious]

Turn off the light you might feel less self conscious
plus girls prefer the lights off anyways

(she wont notice it mid act )