i have never appreciated life and my parents

[disciple99]

hey guys today I am outta of my home and living far away from my family (my personal decision ) and now I know one thing that i have never appreciated life and my parents and taken them for granted and now I can see the value they provided to me and what a fool am I this is a fact .

 

[Mystique]

Hey man, it's been a while.

today I am outta of my
home and living far away from my
family (my personal decision ) and
now I know one thing that i have
never appreciated life and my parents
and taken them for granted and now I
can see the value they provided to
me and what a fool am I this is a fact

As much of a cliche as it might sound, there goes the saying: you don't know the value of something until you lose. The good thing here is that you haven't lost your family and are hopefully in good shape (and so you can still experience the beauty of life). Also, what prompted your decision to live away from home - it's supposed to be a good thing as you're learning independence and you'll have a better opportunity to practice seduction without any hindrance or religious/moral policing. I'd like to know more about this away-from-home journey you've taken.

 

[trashKENNUT]

discple99,

hey guys today I am outta of my home and living far away from my family (my personal decision ) and now I know one thing that i have never appreciated life and my parents and taken them for granted and now I can see the value they provided to me and what a fool am I this is a fact .

BULLSHIT.

This are rationalizations. Older people, women know how to take advantage of this fact. That's society. Are people bad? Probably. That's life though. That lack of transparency without hierarchy or ideas of life.

To make u feel guilty.

Zac

 

[disciple99]

hi M how's going man
actually I came out of my safety blanket to see harsh real word and get some education and na they did nt thrown me out lol

discple99,

hey guys today I am outta of my home and living far away from my family (my personal decision ) and now I know one thing that i have never appreciated life and my parents and taken them for granted and now I can see the value they provided to me and what a fool am I this is a fact .

BULLSHIT.

This are rationalizations. Older people, women know how to take advantage of this fact. That's society. Are people bad? Probably. That's life though. That lack of transparency without hierarchy or ideas of life.

To make u feel guilty.

Zac

no my parents didn't talk me into anything and this was a personal decision of mine and u see family is important and how much they love me and I love them is my self realization
because now I can see how much Pain they take to make my life easy actually its just hard to explain in words but my respect is grown for them and I am (or was) just tried to adopt too much (west culture) and forgot my real values and last thing many girls will come but can't replace my parents no one can.

 

[Drck]

You did the right thing, don't doubt yourself. It is not the easiest thing to do, many times it is difficult, but one day you will look back and you will be glad that you did it.

 

[disciple99]

You did the right thing, don't doubt yourself. It is not the easiest thing to do, many times it is difficult, but one day you will look back and you will be glad that you did it.

yes I know that I can see that if I haven't leaved my house I would never be able to grow up and now I can feel more passion for success because I wanna make em proud and I never fell bad about the decision but about how much ill treated them .

 

[trashKENNUT]

disciple99,

I am (or was) just tried to adopt too much (west culture) and forgot my real values and last thing many girls will come but can't replace my parents no one can.

Depends on what values. Everything is just an idea. I don't wanna be an asshole but this is honest to "God's" truth, or 'Eckhart tolle's' or Master Yoda's truth if you will.

Parents are great but the reason why most parents are not respected, on the truest sense, is because you never give the child, tools to equip himself/herself to prepare against the world, let alone love them without expectations!!!..... People might say that most people respect their parents and loved their parents. Errr.... I don't really think so. If you do, you would visit them regularly because you want to, and i don't think most people visit their parents because of will, but rather out of obligation, a feeling of shame from mainstream society.

This are what i see, and perhaps if i say this on the mainstream, People will shut me down. Why? The world is a big giant social circle.

Zac

 

[disciple99]

disciple99,

I am (or was) just tried to adopt too much (west culture) and forgot my real values and last thing many girls will come but can't replace my parents no one can.

Depends on what values. Everything is just an idea. I don't wanna be an asshole but this is honest to "God's" truth, or 'Eckhart tolle's' or Master Yoda's truth if you will.

Parents are great but the reason why most parents are not respected, on the truest sense, is because you never give the child, tools to equip himself/herself to prepare against the world, let alone love them without expectations!!!..... People might say that most people respect their parents and loved their parents. Errr.... I don't really think so. If you do, you would visit them regularly because you want to, and i don't think most people visit their parents because of will, but rather out of obligation, a feeling of shame from mainstream society.

Zac

there might be cultural difference but yes parents do provide a security blanket but most decision we make is by ourselves and we mostly decided to not leave that
security blanket but when I decided to leave that blanket they supported me that why I can feel more respect toward them .
what most kids feel about there parent is that they are not going to provide them what they desire but kids don't try to
understand the position of their parents and most of time parents provide when time is right or need is right.

This are what i see, and perhaps if i say this on the mainstream, People will shut me down. Why? The world is a big giant social circle.

well offtopic but yes I need to be careful about putting my views in mainstream but its hard to do if you like to make your on way and I most of time put my views in front of them how not to do this ???

 

[trashKENNUT]

disciple99,

but most decision we make is by ourselves and we mostly decided to not leave that

Err, not all decisions made by ourselves, and i can tell you this for a fact, which is why asian men gets fed up once women hangout with white guys. You see the cognitive dissonance level shoot up to ten thousand trillions. Most people having their brains melt. Parents not giving their child support in what they do or freedom of expression or ultimately tools, thus resentment. I see this often, and in today's world, you see resentment with the older generation too, in plain sight.

Given an example, if i went through my young days without tinder, and i see my child have the tinder app, i be pissed off.

what most kids feel about there parent is that they are not going to provide them what they desire but kids don't try to
understand the position of their parents and most of time parents provide when time is right or need is right.

Your parents might give blessings for you to do your own thing, i assume? Not all parents are that. I am not talking about kids wanting soft toys or toys or child like stuff. I am talking about loving your children without expectations or too much expectations. Also, even if you do not want to support your child because he wants to learn PUA, at least be honourable to let go.

Most parents can't let go. Even men can't let go of their wifes. See Chase's article on "women want to submit" and you learn why most of us have the potential to be bitter if we are not careful.

well offtopic but yes I need to be careful about putting my views in mainstream but its hard to do if you like to make your on way and I most of time put my views in front of them how not to do this ???

I don't understand the exact question. What is it, again?

Zac