I love articles like this

[Verisimilitude]

http://elitedaily.com/dating/gentlemen/ ... -unicorns/

This article is a perfect example of the madonna/whore complex.

Articles like this make me laugh at first, because they fundamentally misunderstand women. They are completely trapped in the madonna/whore mindset and try so hard to rationalize it. Then I realize how difficult life is for this man and then start to feel sorry for him. And I love that this article is read so much more than girls chase. I love that my competition is being led down this terribly wrong road. More for me .

But what I really enjoy about this article are the reactions that women have to it. They. Hate. It.

The best thing is that you can frame this perfectly into conversation with most girls, even with a hardcore feminist. Especially with a hardcore feminist. As you start to frame that sexual liberation is good for women, they completely agree. And then they talk about the connection you two have. And then...well you know the rest .

This is kind of a rant, but I wanted to point how flawed this thinking is and how you can reframe this idea (which is so prevalent today) into a sexual frame. And that feminists (if they're hot) actually make for good (and easy) lays. How awesome is that?

The more articles that are written like this, the easier it is for people here. So read these, laugh about them, and use it to get a girl in bed with you.

 

[trashKENNUT]

xcrunner,

I am sure everyone would love to jump in and give him his own medicine. Let's laugh a little however.

I realize this is a problem, a real problem among society, all this guys, and their perspectives. Can we change them? We know people don't change, but how do we really understand the root of the problem, or where it started so that we can make peace with all this, what we consider them "nice guys".

I hope Chase has an input, if he sees this one.

Zac

 

[Verisimilitude]

Can we change them? We know people don't change, but how do we really understand the root of the problem, or where it started so that we can make peace with all this, what we consider them "nice guys".

I think it comes from bitterness. They don't understand women and when women don't fit in their expectations and they simply throw up their hands and say, "I give up! There's just no x-type of women left" and complain. What they don't realize is that women aren't black and white or good or bad. Like every human on this planet. There may be some girls that love the "good girl" image and are genuinely good girls. But what people need to realize that everyone needs to make their own decisions about their sexuality.

Honestly, I don't want to change them. Some of them can, but for most guys, it takes a real eye-opening experience to change their views. I can still remember the event that made me realize I was doing something wrong (I bet most people can). They have to come around on their own. But while they're stuck, I'll be happy to take the girls that they hurt off their hands.

 

[Marty]

But what I really enjoy about this article are the reactions that women have to it. They. Hate. It.

Yeah, I love that women hate it too—I have to laugh at this fool who goes out on a limb white-knighting and then gets shot down by the very people he's trying to "save".

But unlike you, I don't laugh at him or pity him either, I must admit; my reaction is different. I just think he's a jerk who actually makes me angry. This is one thing I simply can't stand, though I'm a pretty open-minded person: long before I ever discovered this site, possessive, jealous, self-righteous men have always elicited in me an uncontrollable, chemical, visceral revulsion.

 

[Verisimilitude]

I guess the reason why I feel bad for him is I was once that guy. I loved the whole "lady in the street but a freak in the bed" and I was convinced that I wanted to marry a virgin. I felt like this until my girlfriend at the time cheated on my when I refused to have sex with her. Looking back, I'm glad she did. It changed me and made me a better person. And I couldn't have changed unless she had done that. So I do feel bad because these guys are going to be alone/get hurt. Although it will eventually be good, it'll hurt at first.