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I made eye contact today

Rhaegar

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Now I know you guys are laughing at the thread title, but I've never cold approached a girl before, and whenever I would accidently make eyecontact with a pretty girl, I would quickly put my head down or look away or something lame like that.

Anyways, I saw a pretty girl today and I made eye contact with her, she looked to the side (and this would be the part where I would look away to), but I remember reading an article on here about that, so I keep looking at her as I was walking, and then she looked down, indicating submission.

Now I know this should have been the time to approach but I blew it, and I walked passed her while she was sitting down alone and went to order my food. It took 5 mins for my food to be ready and during those 5 mins I basically said to myself in my head I was disappointed in myself and I should go approach her.

When I got my food, she was gone which sucked. Anyways, while I am happy that I held eye contact with a stranger pretty girl for the first time, I swear next time I will approach them and just say hi.

I guess some progress is better then no progress, I hope by the end of summer that my social anxiety is gone.
 

Improvementalist

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We've all been there, don't worry about it.

I've too been improving my skills. At first I learned to maintain eye contact, then eventually learned the seductive look.

But I've too had my setbacks. I was at this one party, and a smoking hot girl happened to look at me from the other side of the room. I maintained eye contact, when she suddenly did the unexpected.
She gave a flirtatious wink.
It came so behind the bushes that I could not but look away.

Since then I've improved, and so will you in time.
 
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