I Need Help

[MrCharming]

Hello Gentlemen

I Need Help With My Ego...

I've been Sleeping with too many Women, and the Outcome Independence is becomig a Natural Habit. I'm starting to Care less and less about the Women I interact with, and the Pussy that I get just doesn't feel the Same anymore...

I've been Winning too much - and my Ego is Immense... I am starting to Believe that I can do anything. I try to Meditate to Humble myself... but Meditation makes me feel even more Certain of myself
And this is a Good Thing - but it makes me feel like Superman. I don't like Superman - he's not beatable. I like Spiderman - he's more Human

How do I be more like Spiderman? And less like Superman?

How do I build Stronger Connections? How do I Fall In Love?

MrCharming... Out

 

[Drck]

IMO you've seen so many women that you've became desensitized, there is no more emotional excitement. Going out with girls just became mechanical skill, you probably developed some of your own routines that lead to successful closure...

So is it good or bad? It depends how you look at it, for lots of guys here having unlimited success with girls is the ultimate goal. But as you may see, THAT won't satisfy you either...

Sometimes it is not about quantity (of women), it's about quality. For quality you have to chose to spend more time with one particular person. Try to 'discover' the person, what is she about, what kind of person is she, how does she sees the world, relationships, life,... Perhaps it is not much about talking, it's more about listening to what the other person has to say...

You may also try to 'undo' some of the seduction skills you've acquired. Do silly things like beginners do. Be a Nice Guy here and there. Chase little bit. Let her lead and so forth.

Develop platonic love with some girls, it's quite interesting. Simply give up on sex with that girl, yet overwhelm her with hints that you really like her. She will probably disappear from your life for a while, but then she'll most likely come back, even just through social media. Become a voluntary orbital, if you have to. Don't try to setup any meetings with her, let her simply do it...

Try to connect with girls that are not so good looking. Surprisingly, many of them have great personalities, as they have to work much harder on themselves that good looking girl. Think about it, a girl with great looks doesn't have to do anything, yet she always has two-three dozen guys orbiting her...

Also read book "Emotional Intelligence". It could have been written 10x better, rather 20x, but it has lots of useful information in it. Try to connect with girls on more emotional level, e.g. See if you can figure out how she feels and connect it with what she says.

Humbleness, passion, kindness... Those are quite high skills as you are rather dealing with subtle emotions, one has to work hard on e.g. true kindness...

 

[MrCharming]

Emotional Intelligence... by Daniel Coleman - listening to the Audiobook of that right now - I appreciate your feedback. I am working on becoming more of an emotional human being
What are your sticking points in Game? Maybe I can provide insight

MrCharming... Out