Hi guys,
my tinder game has been bad of late. The last 5 girls I've met I haven't laid any. The one girl I did bring back to my apt it didn't lead to sex only me licking her boobies and a make out session. She also showed me the top of her pussy since she wasn't wearing panties. I could have seen this girl again but she got lost in the shuffle with other girls.
I think my main problem is I need to be more sexual on my dates (or make that intention clear). It's something I've never really done too much in the past but it hasn't really hurt me, until this past year - I still got lays and such on the first date. I incorporate sexy eye contact, slow warm smile (no teeth / minimal teeth), and light touching, girl looks at my lips throughout the date at various times. This combined with having a girl talk the majority of the time has worked out well. But lately - my week day dates have been ending with the "I have to wake up early for work" dilemma. My dates are usually around 7:30 and go til 9ish or earlier. I usually give a hug and sometimes a kiss in these situations (after persistence of course). Lately it's been pissing me off so much that I dont even kiss the girl.This probably puts me in the friend zone for sure but I have no intention on seeing them again.
My date last Sunday i actually setup for 6:30 so that I could bounce the girl by 8. Except this didnt work either! The girl had to go to her sisters place and walk the dog. Probably a bullshit excuse. We hugged but I didn't kiss her.
Also, I think I've become dulled to first dates with girls. I honestly feel like i'm just going through the motions. I switched it up tonight and brought a girl to the park for some beers and to sit and talk. It wasn't too bad - but i think the date became dull by the end, we were there almost 3 hrs! (cringe) and I didn't even kiss her. I think I really messed up the progression but it was fun to have it in the park as opposed to the standard bar/drinks.
My main thing is i find it so corny to say something sexual in reference to what she is saying unless I know it will be smooth. I think I need to go the route Franco mentioned in one of his posts and just tell the girl she looks so sexy during a pause in the convo. I keep forgetting to do this though.
my tinder game has been bad of late. The last 5 girls I've met I haven't laid any. The one girl I did bring back to my apt it didn't lead to sex only me licking her boobies and a make out session. She also showed me the top of her pussy since she wasn't wearing panties. I could have seen this girl again but she got lost in the shuffle with other girls.
I think my main problem is I need to be more sexual on my dates (or make that intention clear). It's something I've never really done too much in the past but it hasn't really hurt me, until this past year - I still got lays and such on the first date. I incorporate sexy eye contact, slow warm smile (no teeth / minimal teeth), and light touching, girl looks at my lips throughout the date at various times. This combined with having a girl talk the majority of the time has worked out well. But lately - my week day dates have been ending with the "I have to wake up early for work" dilemma. My dates are usually around 7:30 and go til 9ish or earlier. I usually give a hug and sometimes a kiss in these situations (after persistence of course). Lately it's been pissing me off so much that I dont even kiss the girl.This probably puts me in the friend zone for sure but I have no intention on seeing them again.
My date last Sunday i actually setup for 6:30 so that I could bounce the girl by 8. Except this didnt work either! The girl had to go to her sisters place and walk the dog. Probably a bullshit excuse. We hugged but I didn't kiss her.
Also, I think I've become dulled to first dates with girls. I honestly feel like i'm just going through the motions. I switched it up tonight and brought a girl to the park for some beers and to sit and talk. It wasn't too bad - but i think the date became dull by the end, we were there almost 3 hrs! (cringe) and I didn't even kiss her. I think I really messed up the progression but it was fun to have it in the park as opposed to the standard bar/drinks.
My main thing is i find it so corny to say something sexual in reference to what she is saying unless I know it will be smooth. I think I need to go the route Franco mentioned in one of his posts and just tell the girl she looks so sexy during a pause in the convo. I keep forgetting to do this though.
