Calls & Texts I need your advice!!!

[jimmykages]

I'm a Greek who just started a master in Vienna, and yesterday I approached a stunning girl, we talked for 2-3 minutes, agreed to go fora coffee and the she gave me her number. About an hour later I texted her that it was a pleasure meeting her and today I texted her in order to set up the date. This is what she responded:

"Hi! It's kind of you to write. I was very flattered and startled yesterday - such a thing never happened before - but I will be honest, I am not looking for anything right now. No offense,I hope you'll understand and get to enjoy Vienna!"

What would you respond to this?! Any advice on how to respond to this text is very much appreciated!

Cheers,
D from Greece

 

[ray_zorse]

This kind of thing has happened to me a few times a month recently (normally they don't reply but sometimes it is like u described)... Each time I've responded with some light teasing and/or saying it was good of them to let me kmow, sometimes had further text from them but generally no means no. So then I tried text that reinforces outcome independence "oh okay..shit happens..had fun with u, u r cool..have a nice life " but you know what, the best response is no response at all, be more of an asshole and leave them hanging. Lately I try to avoid being the last one to send a text in any interaction, this takrs willpower but makes u more mysterious. Then if u are any good at phone game u could try re engaging her some days later by voice, only do this if u had strong connection & are puzzled by her change of attitude. Just read the article on voicemail on the main site and have a non needy message ready since she likely won't pick up.
Ray