I noticed that 9+ girls stare far less at me than 7s and 8s.

[razir110]

Hi all, it's what is says in the title.

Is it true that really beautiful girls stare at guys less? I mean they know they are very good looking, but would that affect how they show their interest around?

Or is it me that is not up to the standards of a 9+?

What is your experience at this?

 

[Ronnie]

I suspect it's the same reason why older women (including good looking ones) stare at me more often than young girls or are much more responsive in the first seconds of cold approach.
The more desirable you are, the harder to get you behave. Frankly, I think men do that too. Ever noticed how male actors or sport figures act sometimes even annoyed at female fans, journalists etc. who gush over them?

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Hotter women are subtle. This gives more information for what you are looking for

 

[foggy]

Depends.

When I was in Argentina, the hottest girls would act in two ways:

A) scathe at me when I got in their awareness radius
B) stalk me

Other countries it's totally different. usually ranging from indifference to interest, but never as polarized as argentina

if they are paying 0 attention to you, consider improvement to your fundamentals. 9s will look at you if you're attractive

 

[Will_V]

Hi all, it's what is says in the title.

Is it true that really beautiful girls stare at guys less? I mean they know they are very good looking, but would that affect how they show their interest around?

Or is it me that is not up to the standards of a 9+?

What is your experience at this?

My experience is that the hottest girls stare most when (a) they cannot put me in a clear category and b) I have a very strong vibe. This somehow makes the average girls a little uncomfortable and defensive (and even sometimes negatively react) but makes the hotter girls curious.

The best reactions from more average girls happens when I look very squared away but not particularly eccentric.

I've gotten the impression over time that the lower a girls self esteem the more she reacts positively to a very 'normal' but cool guy, someone she can easily feel 'high-value' being with, whereas a hot girl will be more ready to play around with the concept of a guy who is outside the norms because she has nothing to lose.

I don't know if that's the only thing that creates a difference but it's the only one I've noticed.

 

[CharmingPsychopath]

Or is it me that is not up to the standards of a 9+?

I suspect that's the case. The 9+ women have incredible possibilities in terms of quality of men and they are used to higher standards. It's common occurrence that a guy is popular among 7s, but gets little or no interest from the 9+. (With 8/10 it's less clear, more mixed)

You should be happy that any 9+ women stared at you - that means you're more attractive than majority of men. The 9+ do not stare at average guys.

What is your experience at this?

I get a lot of attracted stares from different groups of women, including 9+. I've noticed it's random and follows no pattern in my case - a 5/10 can ignore me, while a 9+ can give me a "salivating" look.

I've noticed that most of my friends and most other men get absolutely no interest from 9+ women - zero, absolutely none. One has to be above average in one way or another to get interest from 9+ women.

I'm good looking (let's say 7/10), but I'm nowhere near being really attractive to 9+ just because of my looks. Fortunately, I have a vibe which has excellent effect on women. I'm extremely sexual and I also have "dark", predatory urges towards BDSM, dominating, humiliating the woman, making her my slave, my property, etc. At the same time, I'm also a warm, nice, empathetic person. That's the reason for my user name "Charming Psychopath". This vibe works wonders for me and I'm attractive to women far more than my physical 7/10 attractiveness would indicate.

BTW I don't necessarily recommend this vibe, as I've seen my friends fail at trying to copy it. Probably the key factor here is that in my case, this vibe is authentic. I was a little bit of psycho already in kindergarten (yes, really).

Reading the thread, I've noticed big similarity between my experiences and what was written by @Will_V :

My experience is that the hottest girls stare most when (a) they cannot put me in a clear category and b) I have a very strong vibe.

1. I definitively have very strong vibe.

2. I think I also have the "cannot put me in a clear category", because my vibe projects both intense sexuality/"dark" urges and being warm, nice, empathetic, etc.

 

[Will_V]

I suspect that's the case. The 9+ women have incredible possibilities in terms of quality of men and they are used to higher standards. It's common occurrence that a guy is popular among 7s, but gets little or no interest from the 9+.

They are used to higher standards when standards are what they're looking for, but they also have room to explore options that are unusual and compelling where standards are not defined. A person with high self esteem is naturally very curious, and sees the world as full of possibilities and opportunities from which they can return to a good baseline at any time, whereas those with low self esteem (especially when their self-image has become very enmeshed with peripheral aspects of their life and a substantial amount of history) become very uncurious and rigid, and seek only things that clearly improve or at least explicitly support that self-image, since the baseline is not great to begin with and always ready to dip.

BTW I don't necessarily recommend this vibe, as I've seen my friends fail at trying to copy it. Probably the key factor here is that in my case, this vibe is authentic.

Yeah, vibe cannot be faked, since no one can properly see themselves from outside. And that's one of the reasons girls are very attuned to it.