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It was 2018 around April I suppose when this lay happened. This is a gal whom I had met 4 years before that.
So I bet you are wondering why a lay take four years to happen. Let me break it down as much as I can remember because it is full of twists and turns. It almost didn’t happen but it happened anyway.
So back in 2014 when I had just moved into my current city, which is the capital of mu country, I worked in a university as an intern, I was coming from a countryside university where I was studying. Just as I finished my studies in that village university, I applied to intern at the library of this big campus in the capital.
So I came to the city for the internship which wasn’t a paid internship but I needed an excuse to move to the city and my parents wouldn’t have just allowed me to come over for no reason, so I took up this unpaid internship to move to the big city. My parents funded my relocation and the accommodation so I shifted to the city to intern as I wait to graduate.
Being in a new university but now as an intern exposed me to young city gals who were quite attractive. I was working there and it was important that I handle myself professionally.
One morning while getting into the library on the staircase I saw this chic also walking in and I said hello, she replied back and I asked for her contact details but she declined. I didn’t talk much to her and moved on with my day.
A few days later I ran into her in campus and she stopped me and told me she had been looking for me since that day we met, women! I told her cool and this time round she took my number and I took hers.
So from there on we would chat in the evenings after work and she even suggested she wants to come over to see where I stay and I said cool. She asked me things like “how did you feel when I turned you down the first time we met”, lol, I didn’t even feel anything.
One day while in the library after we had shared contacts I was talking to her and I told her if there warent people around I would have kissed her. I don’t know why I said that because I had not learned to set such sexual frames anywhere before, it just came out. Many years later while reading gc and setting sexual frames I kind of remembered this line and that is when I realised what I was doing. She also asked me in our evening chats later that day why I said that and I told her I wanted to fuck.
I asked for sex and even told me her I will eat her pussy and she was okay with all that but nothing really went down.
When I tried to pull her, she told me she likes sex so much and if we start shagging she won’t concentrate on her studies. I told her that is okay and she should concentrate on her studies more.
I was young, and with terrible game at this point. I had read gc only once in 2012 and for a short time so I didn’t know a lot of things, as you can tell I wasn’t doing much with this gal.
The only game lesson I knew at this point was moving fast, cocky and funny and swingcatt’s be the prize. Those are the basics I had.
I finished my internship in 3 months and asked for a salaried position and the university declined, they told me they only have a vacancy for a masters graduate and I left the place.
I forgot about the gal all together, I think I even deleted her contact or lost it. But I would later on think about her once in a while and many years later, around 2016 I looked for her on facebook and I found her.
I added her as a friend but we didn’t talk, I am not even sure she remembered me. Then I later on followed her on IG, we talked a little there but didn’t share much there too.
She had told me she lived in a certain part of town where later on as I got deep into the culture of the new city and made friends, I made friends who lived there and I would frequent there a lot to hang out with my friends but I never thought of reaching out to her.
One day as I was on a bus going to visit a friend in that part of the city, I saw this chic in front of a shop talking to the shopkeeper, the bus had stopped to drop people, I alighted the bus and went to that shop, she didnt remember me and I didn’t also tell her whom I am, she was talking about politics to the attendant and I also talked a little about the same. I bought gum from the shop and left, my friend’s place was just nearby.
Later on while I was at my friend’s place, I messaged her on IG and told her I was the guy at the shop and reminded her whom I was. She said she felt I was familiar when I came to the shop and we shared contacts again for the second time. She also said I am very lucky to have seen her again for the second time
By this time she had finished campus and she was in law school. We would chat here and there but nothing really happened.
I also had a new female friend whom I was close to from the same exact neighborhood who was studying law in the same university I interned in and met this gal I am talking about so I guessed they must be knowing each other but I never brought her up while talking to this chic and never asked her about this gal too. And my guess was right, my female friend would later on asked indirectly if I know this chic because I had done sexual stuff with both of them. More twists and turn to this story.
Back to this gal, one day while in her hood, I hit her up and she came out and we talked a little. I bought her fruits and she head home. We continued talking once in a while.
One Saturday evening in april 2018, I was chilling at home when this chic called me, we talked and she told me she in town and her friend had flaked on her so she was alone. She sounded a little tipsy, she was talking about how much she had spent etc…
I told her to come over and she said she will think about it and get back to me in 10 minutes. I thought it was a carve but 10 minutes later she reached out and said she is coming. She asked me to pay for her uber and I declined, told her to just come, this is a gal from a good home.
I gave her directions and told her to hit me up when she alight at the bus stop which is just next to my house. She came and I picked her from the bus stop, I hold her as we walk home, it was around 10pm at night, no woman invites herself to a man’s house at that time without expecting dick.
While at home, we just got straight into it. Kissing and caressing, she was super compliant and it was at this point where she told me she had seen me in town earlier in the day. She was on her periods and told me she has cramps so we didn’t go for long, it was a 5 minute encounter at most.
She called for an uber and went home after that.
That was it, we kept talking and next time I was in her neighborhood to visit a friend I hit her up and we went for a date in a certain mall in her hood.
She told me she is dating and doesn’t want me as friends with benefits but she was all over so we just chilled.
Back to my female friend whom I know from the same hood, we started getting close with that one too, she had also been to my place just 4 months before I lay this chic and we had caressed and done some sexual stuff but we didn’t fuck.
After sexing this gal, she would try finding out why I go to her neighborhood a lot. They were not the only people I knew in that hood.
I had a male cousin and a good male friend from campus whom I knew in that hood and I would hangout with them a lot there.
I also once met another chic in the same hood whom I gamed but was so frigid, I pulled her to my cousin’s place but she stormed off while we started caressing…
That was too much to digest.
Takeway from all this; gaming in one city, you keep running into gals who know each other a lot.
So I bet you are wondering why a lay take four years to happen. Let me break it down as much as I can remember because it is full of twists and turns. It almost didn’t happen but it happened anyway.
So back in 2014 when I had just moved into my current city, which is the capital of mu country, I worked in a university as an intern, I was coming from a countryside university where I was studying. Just as I finished my studies in that village university, I applied to intern at the library of this big campus in the capital.
So I came to the city for the internship which wasn’t a paid internship but I needed an excuse to move to the city and my parents wouldn’t have just allowed me to come over for no reason, so I took up this unpaid internship to move to the big city. My parents funded my relocation and the accommodation so I shifted to the city to intern as I wait to graduate.
Being in a new university but now as an intern exposed me to young city gals who were quite attractive. I was working there and it was important that I handle myself professionally.
One morning while getting into the library on the staircase I saw this chic also walking in and I said hello, she replied back and I asked for her contact details but she declined. I didn’t talk much to her and moved on with my day.
A few days later I ran into her in campus and she stopped me and told me she had been looking for me since that day we met, women! I told her cool and this time round she took my number and I took hers.
So from there on we would chat in the evenings after work and she even suggested she wants to come over to see where I stay and I said cool. She asked me things like “how did you feel when I turned you down the first time we met”, lol, I didn’t even feel anything.
One day while in the library after we had shared contacts I was talking to her and I told her if there warent people around I would have kissed her. I don’t know why I said that because I had not learned to set such sexual frames anywhere before, it just came out. Many years later while reading gc and setting sexual frames I kind of remembered this line and that is when I realised what I was doing. She also asked me in our evening chats later that day why I said that and I told her I wanted to fuck.
I asked for sex and even told me her I will eat her pussy and she was okay with all that but nothing really went down.
When I tried to pull her, she told me she likes sex so much and if we start shagging she won’t concentrate on her studies. I told her that is okay and she should concentrate on her studies more.
I was young, and with terrible game at this point. I had read gc only once in 2012 and for a short time so I didn’t know a lot of things, as you can tell I wasn’t doing much with this gal.
The only game lesson I knew at this point was moving fast, cocky and funny and swingcatt’s be the prize. Those are the basics I had.
I finished my internship in 3 months and asked for a salaried position and the university declined, they told me they only have a vacancy for a masters graduate and I left the place.
I forgot about the gal all together, I think I even deleted her contact or lost it. But I would later on think about her once in a while and many years later, around 2016 I looked for her on facebook and I found her.
I added her as a friend but we didn’t talk, I am not even sure she remembered me. Then I later on followed her on IG, we talked a little there but didn’t share much there too.
She had told me she lived in a certain part of town where later on as I got deep into the culture of the new city and made friends, I made friends who lived there and I would frequent there a lot to hang out with my friends but I never thought of reaching out to her.
One day as I was on a bus going to visit a friend in that part of the city, I saw this chic in front of a shop talking to the shopkeeper, the bus had stopped to drop people, I alighted the bus and went to that shop, she didnt remember me and I didn’t also tell her whom I am, she was talking about politics to the attendant and I also talked a little about the same. I bought gum from the shop and left, my friend’s place was just nearby.
Later on while I was at my friend’s place, I messaged her on IG and told her I was the guy at the shop and reminded her whom I was. She said she felt I was familiar when I came to the shop and we shared contacts again for the second time. She also said I am very lucky to have seen her again for the second time
By this time she had finished campus and she was in law school. We would chat here and there but nothing really happened.
I also had a new female friend whom I was close to from the same exact neighborhood who was studying law in the same university I interned in and met this gal I am talking about so I guessed they must be knowing each other but I never brought her up while talking to this chic and never asked her about this gal too. And my guess was right, my female friend would later on asked indirectly if I know this chic because I had done sexual stuff with both of them. More twists and turn to this story.
Back to this gal, one day while in her hood, I hit her up and she came out and we talked a little. I bought her fruits and she head home. We continued talking once in a while.
One Saturday evening in april 2018, I was chilling at home when this chic called me, we talked and she told me she in town and her friend had flaked on her so she was alone. She sounded a little tipsy, she was talking about how much she had spent etc…
I told her to come over and she said she will think about it and get back to me in 10 minutes. I thought it was a carve but 10 minutes later she reached out and said she is coming. She asked me to pay for her uber and I declined, told her to just come, this is a gal from a good home.
I gave her directions and told her to hit me up when she alight at the bus stop which is just next to my house. She came and I picked her from the bus stop, I hold her as we walk home, it was around 10pm at night, no woman invites herself to a man’s house at that time without expecting dick.
While at home, we just got straight into it. Kissing and caressing, she was super compliant and it was at this point where she told me she had seen me in town earlier in the day. She was on her periods and told me she has cramps so we didn’t go for long, it was a 5 minute encounter at most.
She called for an uber and went home after that.
That was it, we kept talking and next time I was in her neighborhood to visit a friend I hit her up and we went for a date in a certain mall in her hood.
She told me she is dating and doesn’t want me as friends with benefits but she was all over so we just chilled.
Back to my female friend whom I know from the same hood, we started getting close with that one too, she had also been to my place just 4 months before I lay this chic and we had caressed and done some sexual stuff but we didn’t fuck.
After sexing this gal, she would try finding out why I go to her neighborhood a lot. They were not the only people I knew in that hood.
I had a male cousin and a good male friend from campus whom I knew in that hood and I would hangout with them a lot there.
I also once met another chic in the same hood whom I gamed but was so frigid, I pulled her to my cousin’s place but she stormed off while we started caressing…
That was too much to digest.
Takeway from all this; gaming in one city, you keep running into gals who know each other a lot.
