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Greetings Guys 
Just wanted to let you know that I still lurk here time-to-time. I still love reading the posts and bookmarking/learning/memorizing stuff I hear! Just today I bookmarked a topic by Chase on what to say if a girl calls you gay. That is solid gold.
Anyway, I just wanted to apologize for not being around more and helping everyone out. I've been quite busy in life! Maybe it will settle down in a few months, but not right now. I definitely appreciate all of the advice I've gotten here and the successes I've achieved. (I plan to renew my membership in a few months too once my life settles a bit.)
Keep churning and working and success will come. I wish the best of luck to you all
I've also been doing a lot more spiritual stuff (meditating 1 hour per day). I'm not religious, and I'm not here to puke my views on everyone. But, wow, keep meditating and reading spiritual books and taking classes/mentors (if you can afford it) if you're interested in spiritual stuff, physical manifestations will come! Biggest physical manifestation came into my life recently, and I had a week where it felt like I crammed 5-10 years into one week. It's the same with this site! When I first came here and started learning, it was like I was "cheating" and learning all of this practical wisdom -- 5-10 years of wisdom -- in such a short, short time. It's difficult in the mind because we want the fire NOW (analogy). But, if you're holding the matches, you do have fire now -- it's just not visible. So keep working everyday, and all of this GC stuff will come (and so will spiritual if interested in that stuff).
As for my life, two new women that I've been with and spending a lot of time with -- not sure which to choose as my girlfriend yet lol. But, it's definitely nice. Lots of things moving in my life.
I also finally buckled down and took Chase's advice on masturbation. My stance on this was pretty strong because I was worried about testosterone and not feeling as aggressive. But, I deleted my porn and have forced myself not to masturbate for a few months now. It's not easy! But, it just makes you want to keep going out there more (and makes you more passionately pursue sex in your current relationships). EDIT: Also, I've stopped using deodorant. Okay, so I know this sounds gross to everyone, but no one has commented on me smelling (in fact, I had a girl tell me I smell nice), and I save money not using it, and my underarms feel a lot better (no itching). So thanks to Chase also for these rather unorthodox things that I decided to take a plunge and try in my life.
Anyway, best of luck to all And thanks for the past advice and community. I'll be back in a few months (hopefully!) when life settles.
-PN
Just wanted to let you know that I still lurk here time-to-time. I still love reading the posts and bookmarking/learning/memorizing stuff I hear! Just today I bookmarked a topic by Chase on what to say if a girl calls you gay. That is solid gold.
Anyway, I just wanted to apologize for not being around more and helping everyone out. I've been quite busy in life! Maybe it will settle down in a few months, but not right now. I definitely appreciate all of the advice I've gotten here and the successes I've achieved. (I plan to renew my membership in a few months too once my life settles a bit.)
Keep churning and working and success will come. I wish the best of luck to you all
I've also been doing a lot more spiritual stuff (meditating 1 hour per day). I'm not religious, and I'm not here to puke my views on everyone. But, wow, keep meditating and reading spiritual books and taking classes/mentors (if you can afford it) if you're interested in spiritual stuff, physical manifestations will come! Biggest physical manifestation came into my life recently, and I had a week where it felt like I crammed 5-10 years into one week. It's the same with this site! When I first came here and started learning, it was like I was "cheating" and learning all of this practical wisdom -- 5-10 years of wisdom -- in such a short, short time. It's difficult in the mind because we want the fire NOW (analogy). But, if you're holding the matches, you do have fire now -- it's just not visible. So keep working everyday, and all of this GC stuff will come (and so will spiritual if interested in that stuff).
As for my life, two new women that I've been with and spending a lot of time with -- not sure which to choose as my girlfriend yet lol. But, it's definitely nice. Lots of things moving in my life.
I also finally buckled down and took Chase's advice on masturbation. My stance on this was pretty strong because I was worried about testosterone and not feeling as aggressive. But, I deleted my porn and have forced myself not to masturbate for a few months now. It's not easy! But, it just makes you want to keep going out there more (and makes you more passionately pursue sex in your current relationships). EDIT: Also, I've stopped using deodorant. Okay, so I know this sounds gross to everyone, but no one has commented on me smelling (in fact, I had a girl tell me I smell nice), and I save money not using it, and my underarms feel a lot better (no itching). So thanks to Chase also for these rather unorthodox things that I decided to take a plunge and try in my life.
Anyway, best of luck to all
And thanks for the past advice and community. I'll be back in a few months (hopefully!) when life settles.-PN
