I think I have a hard time balancing game

[Dragonetti]

A 19 year old came over from tinder the other day. She clearly wanted to get fucked and that's what happened.

Long story short she has a "breeding" kink so I finished in her every time with no protection (she says it's all fine and she'll get plan B). She cums a lot.

The next day she texts me asking me if I can pay for plan B. I don't have a problem paying per se, but to me this is a bit presumptuous because it was never discussed. I don't want to be compliant with her so I text "lol that's the kind of thing that's discussed beforehand!"

She gets really mad, says she doesn't like me and blocks my number. Did I misuse "game" here by pushing back against her request for compliance? maybe this is her being young and unpredictable

 

[TomInHo]

I would rather pay $50 and be “compliant”, than pay thousands in child support for 18 years because I was ALPHA

Sounds like messed up priorities to me

Also why didn’t you take her to get the plan B yourself? Really expect some random 19 year old to have your best interest at heart?

 

[Dragonetti]

She already took the Plan B. She just wanted me to reimburse her for it. So there was never risk of her not taking it, she just wanted the cost covered.

 

[TomInHo]

Okay that makes sense

Your response was a bit abrasive but it does seem like an overreaction from her

 

[Dragonetti]

Should I continue with this kind of disposition going forward?

 

[TomInHo]

I wouldn’t have answered her like you did personally

Would have asked her “Want me to pay for your plan B? Why’s that?”

To get her to explain herself and sell me on why I should do it. And also what’s in it for me if I pay

Then can firmly assert my boundary “nicely” on why I’m not responsible for paying since I was simply just fulfilling a fantasy of hers

Don’t need to be a dick to set boundaries

 

[Skills]

A 19 year old came over from tinder the other day. She clearly wanted to get fucked and that's what happened.

Long story short she has a "breeding" kink so I finished in her every time with no protection (she says it's all fine and she'll get plan B). She cums a lot.

The next day she texts me asking me if I can pay for plan B. I don't have a problem paying per se, but to me this is a bit presumptuous because it was never discussed. I don't want to be compliant with her so I text "lol that's the kind of thing that's discussed beforehand!"

She gets really mad, says she doesn't like me and blocks my number. Did I misuse "game" here by pushing back against her request for compliance? maybe this is her being young and unpredictable

I don't see you did anything wrong, other that i would not have bang and busted inside in the first place relying on a girl saying she will get the plan b.....