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[zeroman2]

Beginner here

So I started reading girl Chase several months ago and only made little progress if any.

I started to go to night clubs More (even though I'm not a big drinker) to start meet girls and get better. I still suffer for approach anxiety. But I figured it's better to get out there to make some attempt then lay around and do nothing. So I go there once a week never work up the nerve to talk to any girls. However I did say goodbye to a few of them last week which if you consider how bad I am with approach anxiety is somewhat progress.

And today I decided to go out tonight knowing I had little progress last week. When I first got there within 10 minutes three girls was standing next to me at the bar. I knew I had to approach them and say something but once again I could work up the nerve and they left. Then another girl approached next to me. And started to talk to me. Tell me she recently broke up with her boyfriend and she plans on leaving with somebody tonight. We talk less than 5 minutes before she left and flirted with other guys in the bar. Before I left I knew good and well if I wanted to I could have her tonight despite the fact that she flirted with the other guys. The main reason I didn't was I didn't have protection at the time (because I never thought I would get laid that night) also she kind of wasn't my type but good enough for a lay.

My question is what do you do when you're in a predicament where you're about to get laid but don't protection. Also any other tips for help.

And for a side note. I did flirt with her by touching her and complimenting her looks a little. And I did one thing for compliance with her.

 

[BigS]

zeroman2,

Congrats! This is great progress! Just getting out there and forcing yourself to get out of your comfort zone is an accomplishment in and of itself.

However I did say goodbye to a few of them last week which if you consider how bad I am with approach anxiety is somewhat progress.

I would say to get over your approach anxiety, set manageable goals for yourself. If you said goodbye to 3 girls that day, say goodbye to 5 the next time. Also, if you are only doing this once per week and want to get over approach anxiety, I would recommend doing it closer to every day. Approach, approach, approach!

I think Tony Depp (in the GC youtube videos) said that a PUA does have any innate abilities most of the time, they are just people willing to get rejected more than anyone else! Get rejected hundreds of times and you'll realize that nothing bad happens after it

When I first got there within 10 minutes three girls was standing next to me at the bar. I knew I had to approach them and say something but once again I could work up the nerve and they left. Then another girl approached next to me. And started to talk to me. Tell me she recently broke up with her boyfriend and she plans on leaving with somebody tonight. We talk less than 5 minutes before she left and flirted with other guys in the bar. Before I left I knew good and well if I wanted to I could have her tonight despite the fact that she flirted with the other guys. The main reason I didn't was I didn't have protection at the time (because I never thought I would get laid that night) also she kind of wasn't my type but good enough for a lay.

It sounds like girls are already attracted to you or feel comfortable around you, which is great! Keep on hammering down your fundamentals (e.g. good posture, strong eye contact, deep voice) and you will have no trouble.

My question is what do you do when you're in a predicament where you're about to get laid but don't protection. Also any other tips for help.

I would say that the #1 answer is to always be prepared! Before you go out, make sure you have protection and make sure you have your LOGISTICS worked out so that this is not the thing stopping you from getting a lay. Regardless, I think that noticing this and knowing that you need to make a change is a great first step.

Keep it up man!

BigS

 

[Fuck This]

My question is what do you do when you're in a predicament where you're about to get laid but don't protection. Also any other tips for help.

And for a side note. I did flirt with her by touching her and complimenting her looks a little. And I did one thing for compliance with her.

It is perfectly possible to give a girl an orgasm and receive one without P-I-V sex. A girl who plans on leaving with someone may likely have a stash in her purse, by her bed, in her car...

Make do with what you have.