Idea for articles: Team's stories doing everything right, girls still rejecting

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This is the 2nd installment in Roosh's email mini-course (writing it before he born again):

You will never be rejected like I was in this story

I was out on a Saturday night at a lame club that my friend dragged me to. I approached two different girls but it so loud that I couldn't hear anything. The conversations died out quickly. I got frustrated and left.

On my way home I was still in the mood to talk to girls since I couldn't do it at the club. An opportunity presented itself when I went down the escalator of the subway and saw a pretty girl standing alone.

I positioned myself right next to her. I waited no more than five seconds. Any longer and I would've started to psych myself out. She was in what seemed to be gym shorts so I said, "It doesn't seem like you went out tonight."

She replied, "Actually I did, but I changed so I wouldn't look like a whore on the way home."

Her response is a good sign, because she gave a rich answer that lets me take the conversation all sorts of places. I made comments about the weekend being amateur hour and why I disliked the club I just came from. She took out a packet of gum and I asked for a piece.

The train came and she went in first. Once inside the train I sat near her. She had a smart-ass sense of humor so it was easy to tease her, about her young age and the mosquito bites on her legs. I jokingly asked if she was "intimidated to be talking to an older man." She responded by asking for my age, another good sign that she wanted to get to know me.

"What stop do you get off?" I asked. I wanted to see how much more time I had before asking for the number. Nine times out of ten, based on the fun conversation we were having and her asking me a personal question, I was sure to get it.

In fact, I thought the number was such a sure thing that I was already thinking of logistics on how to take her out on a date since she lived in the suburbs and didn't have a car.

I told her we should hang out for a drink. Her reply: "Hahahahaha no." She laughed at me. Her laugh was loud enough that many other passengers around us saw the rejection. It felt like 100 people were staring at me at that moment.

I said, "Wow, well, you could have lied and said you had a boyfriend."

"Well I do have a boyfriend, blah blah blah."

Her stop came and I forced a smile before telling her to have a good night. There's no point in getting upset, especially since this approach made it easier for me to do more subway approaches in the future. After ten minutes, the burn of a big rejection in front of a crowd wore off and I felt fine.

There are two types of guys: those who let rejection get them down and those who use it as fuel to feed the fire. I'm in the latter group, because I know that part of the game is a numbers game. For every X amount of rejections, there is Y amount of success. If you stop after a rejection then you stopped too soon.

I don't know if we already have similar articles here, but yeah: Detailed stories by experienced GC team members doing their thing right AND the girls still rejecting them would be interesting to read:

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  First, to have good descriptions of how experienced GC team members are doing their thing right when they are doing their thing right (Roosh's methods may not be the best for you but as you can see, at least he is an excellent writer)
• Second, to be reassured that it's just a numbers game. A numbers game in which you can increase your ratios by developing yourself, or course.

Does always assuming attraction help you in this regard?

I've also had some stories where the girls give me what I call Mixed Signals. They include:

• We have a really nice interaction, she has the body language, but when I suggest to let's keep in touch, she tells me she just don't meet strangers this way (happened more than once, daygame)
• In a loud club where I barely hear her (in clubs I literally become dizzy by shouting) which is an opportunity for some good kino, she is from another continent, regardless the nice conversation she refuses to give me any contact info, not even her friggin' email. But she gives me a nice hug at the end of our conversation. By the way she wears a dress with a fully bare back, not even straps.
• Foreign girl again, but same continent. After we come to the conclusion that we default to different channels of communication, she gives me totally fake info. And kisses on the cheek, too.

As you can see it can also be tricky to figure out communication channels if you are not in America where everyone just texts, while outside the US it's complicated. I've concluded by now that you will lose a certain percentage of girls just because the two of you have different preferences in using communication channels. It's just a fact of life, no big deal. But that's another story.

 

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