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Here are some points you can take note down to see if you can lessen this things.
1)Intense Eye Contact
This really varies with different people since we all born with different sets of eyes. It will be good for you to look in the mirror, see yourself if you are forcing your eyes onto looking at things.
The key here is how your eyes look. (IF you change it and your eyes can't see things clearly, see an optometrist or else, fuck it.
because it's your eyes. )
2)Enthusiastic but with a wrong body language. Wrong Body Language means Not meeting Society acceptance level.
I know some guys who are really enthuse, i was one. I can be intense before playing a sport, I am so hype up. The problem with this is when your body language are not according to so called "Society acceptance level". It takes a level of social awareness to see how people move that seem as "normal". This varies from culture to culture, just like language.
3)Forcing the issue. Forcing means trying to tell her you interested or fake that you not interested, (In literal, Giving two vibes.)
This can happen in two ways. One is body language and another is conversational. When you trying to do too much with body language, you will come off as a "creep" although you not, only because in logical terms, you giving two vibes. This will lessen with experience, and yea there are just girls who are not interested, who will labelled you a "creep" for cheap pop and ego boost. Don't worry about that one, You can kick her ass later if she comes back.
The other is conversational. I do believe there's a few articles on conversations to convey your interest. Somebody should link it here. I hope.
Zac
1)Intense Eye Contact
This really varies with different people since we all born with different sets of eyes. It will be good for you to look in the mirror, see yourself if you are forcing your eyes onto looking at things.
The key here is how your eyes look. (IF you change it and your eyes can't see things clearly, see an optometrist or else, fuck it.
because it's your eyes. )2)Enthusiastic but with a wrong body language. Wrong Body Language means Not meeting Society acceptance level.
I know some guys who are really enthuse, i was one. I can be intense before playing a sport, I am so hype up. The problem with this is when your body language are not according to so called "Society acceptance level". It takes a level of social awareness to see how people move that seem as "normal". This varies from culture to culture, just like language.
3)Forcing the issue. Forcing means trying to tell her you interested or fake that you not interested, (In literal, Giving two vibes.)
This can happen in two ways. One is body language and another is conversational. When you trying to do too much with body language, you will come off as a "creep" although you not, only because in logical terms, you giving two vibes. This will lessen with experience, and yea there are just girls who are not interested, who will labelled you a "creep" for cheap pop and ego boost. Don't worry about that one, You can kick her ass later if she comes back.
The other is conversational. I do believe there's a few articles on conversations to convey your interest. Somebody should link it here. I hope.
Zac
