If a girl keeps ignoring your texts, is there a goodbye text you can send?

[perpetualsun]

Hey guys,

In the past year, I've noticed that sometimes if I do text some "goodbye" text to a girl who was wishy washy about meeting up, sometimes they would for some reason respond positively. I know that Chase usually recommends just to move on and get more women, but its happened a few times in the last year where I would text,

"hey nina, totally understand you're busy, just let me know when ur free then, take care" or
"hey nina, know you've been busy, was nice meeting you last time, take care"

and have gotten some successful responses to this where I did meet up with them and had something happen. However, when I do text something of a "goodbye" text, im afraid itll come off like I'm a bit hurt, stung, etc, and might make it seem like I'm being passive aggressive. Do you guys have thoughts about texting girls who aren't response and whats a text that would work without seeming too passive aggressive?

 

[Smith]

Perpetualsun,

I like the parting shots you used, and if they've been getting girls texting you back, then I would stick to it. I think sending a goodbye text like "well hey, understand you're pretty busy, but it was nice knowing you." sounds like you're seeking a reaction and it's pretty obvious that's what you're trying to do. For me, if a girl doesn't respond at all even to an ice breaker, I would just let her go and focus my attention on better things. It doesn't hurt to switch it up with calling if she was responsive before but not to your last text.

 

[jdoc]

Perpetualsun,

I came across one of Chase's article. I can't find it now, but the example goes something along the lines of this:

"Hey Olivia! Tell you what - I can't do the whole chasing thing, I'm terrible at it, and you keep trying to make me! So I'm leaving this on you - you plan a date and time, and let me know when that is. I'll meet you then "

I don't really use this text any more - usually I just forget the girl and move on, but it might be something you're willing to try.

- J