Bogger, my man.
Why so hard on yourself?
Being here on the site puts you in a great situation. We are here to support you on your journey to be the man you want to be.
I would suggest you start taking this journey seriously. It is truly an amazing experience to push yourself and grow as a man.
Yes, there will be hardships. But, if you can overcome them, you may come to love the challenge.
Start small. Ask this girl out. If she is not interested, thats is okay. There are PLENTLY more girls out there and you're in the right place to learn how to meet and be with them. But, you need to move on COMPLETELY if she is not interested. Trust me, your energy is worth more than investing it in an uninterested girl.
If she is interested in meeting up, well cool. Meet up with her and see what happens.
Get some experience. That is they key to life. Experience.
There's an awesome man in there somewhere. Bring him out to play, Bogger.
- JW