If I wasn't so in love I'd do threesomes with you

[matheth]

Ive had this exact scenario happen many times:

- i met this somewhat inexperienced girl
- bed her more quickly than anyone shes ever met
- im usually not her type at all (either too nerdy, or too short, or too dumb, etc)
- at some point this girl reveals to me (or i already knew) that she is very curious about exploring her sexuality
- she tells me shes bi
- i flat out suggest (or strongly hint at) doing a threesome with her
- she strongly declines stating that she "doesnt share whats her" or that "she would do it if she wasnt so in love"

Both these types of girls strongly dislike open relationships and even get a bit sad when I bring it up


So my question is why is this happening? Am I being too high value? Being too attainable? Not shooting enough boyfriend disqualifiers?
Is there any way I can screen out for girls that would be open to doing threesomes?
Is there a way I could turn things around with a girl that says shes too in love with me to do a threesome?
Should i consciously fuck up more so they don't perceive me as too perfect?

 

[politepilot]

I’ve never pulled it off but I would imagine best bet is to get her to make a female friend or two and go out clubbing with them or something

 

[Skills]

they give an objection and then you stop.... vs they give the objection, and you constantly hint and sell it as making it:

- it will make the relationship stronger
- it is more for you than for me, i want you to be with a girl, i will be more doing you and barely or not her....

you are making it about "you" vs "making it about her" that is your issue and then you abort the idea, second issue...

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