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I was talking with a dude who said there was a female coworker who kept touching him, playfully hitting him, etc.
It was clear from his story that she was flirting with him. However, he said he wasn't so sure because she called him a "red flag" before.
Logically, in his male brain, red flag = bad = should not date = not interested
This is flawed logic.
If she called him a red flag, that means she was attracted enough to think of him in a dating context in the first place.
The thought of a lightbulb tasting bad wouldn't even cross your mind because you don't consider it edible.
Thank you for listening to my TED talk.
It was clear from his story that she was flirting with him. However, he said he wasn't so sure because she called him a "red flag" before.
Logically, in his male brain, red flag = bad = should not date = not interested
This is flawed logic.
If she called him a red flag, that means she was attracted enough to think of him in a dating context in the first place.
The thought of a lightbulb tasting bad wouldn't even cross your mind because you don't consider it edible.
Thank you for listening to my TED talk.
