If she punches you

[Mr. oblivious]

If a girl punches you that's a sign of attraction right ?

This comes from a girl in my social circle which just likes randomly punching me i don't even have to say anything \

This question comes from an interaction today we had a gathering few beverages etc.

I was sober arrived few hours after it started cause i was busy then i saw the girl she looked at me just started punching my arm

Me: wow wow wow said deep and slowly

Her: Sorry i didn't mean it (pretty sure that's what she said)

Me: don't worry your going to have to hit me a lot harder than that to hurt me (Once i said this she moved closer to me and i saw her trying to put her arm around me so i did it first then walked over to where the rest of the group as socializing)

(i was tempted to escalate but i was sober she had a few and it would of just made thinks awkward in the circle for a bit )

 

[Godsninja]

Yea.

Actually, for some strange reason, I had a flashback of this a week ago.

I remember a few years back in highschool, there was this bomb-fire in my town. This girl tried to knock me out or something. I believe that her redneck buddies dared her, and she walked right over and CLOCKED me.

It hurt (duh), but I fuckin loved it. It felt good in some weird way cuz she was a girl. I think she tried to do it again and we ended up wrestling in the middle of everyone, and I was really telling her, it was awesome. Then the biggest of them just grabbed me and threw me off of her xD

It wasn't like we were mad at eachother. Afterwards, I could tell she was so damn into me, where-as before, she was a little cold, but she was SO damn into me afterwards, she stuck with me the whole night, and I barely even remember her cold side. If I knew any better, I would have quietly dragged her off to "fight again" in the woods with no one around. Damn...

ANYWAYS, If you can take a punch like a man, she'll dig you. If she's just playfully punching you though she just wants your attention. Wrestle her. Alone preferably.

 

[Mr. oblivious]

Gods ninja i think we are talking about different scenario's

1. I knew this girl fairly well in my social group had flings etc.

2. It was a decent punch but i could tell it wasn't her hardest and she was doing it in a playful manner

 

[Godsninja]

I just felt like sharing a bit haha, but yea I still think what I said before. She is interested, and testing the waters in a way she think you'd like, a physical way. Since you mention she's in your social circle, and that she has flings, I would be careful. I am not too good at social circle, but than again I ain't too good at anything haha.

For right now..

Don't over think this. She was drinking so that could account for her playful attitude, but she still has a feel for you, regardless.

I would personally test right back and see if she really is interested, talk a bit, be extremely playful, and ask her out for a date that's asap. I wouldn't want that attraction to expire. The reason I say I'd be careful, is because if she in in your social circle, AND has flings, she may just be the kind that does that (for fun, you know), and putting yourself out there so easily for her to have might just make you look like any other guy. That's my opinion though, I'm sure there's others on this forum that might be able to give you more specific advice.

Godsninja