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Ergon

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hello there!

So last Saturday, after a day of parties and events, I was with a group of friends, in some sort of square with a lot of food carts. There I noticed a beautiful girl with her friend ordering some food. A few minutes later it was just her, waiting for her food. I walked towards her and opened with a compliment: "I noticed you back there and I thought you were cute and I had to say hi, my name is Ergon". I told her it was the first time I was at this place and it was nice, etc. We had some nice chatting.

Anyway, at some point she says she is from Seattle (about 3 hours away) and was only in my city until tomorrow. I didn't know what to do then, her food was ready, and I just told her -"well, I'll let you go on about your night and hope you enjoy your last in the city" and then she said "well, I'm sure I'll come again soon", or something like that. Maybe she said she comes often, I don't remember very well. At that point I returned to where my friends were.

What I thought immediately, however, is that maybe I could've asked for her number so that if she return we can meet and grab a coffee. Probably she expected that and that's why she mentioned she could be back in the city? I didn't think about soon enough. Also I didn't think and insta-date would've been possible since it was pretty late at night (2am) and I was with friends, eating.

So my question to you guys is, have you approached a girl under similar circumstances who gave you her number and you eventually met her when visiting you city again? Could it work? And if so how did you suggest and set up the whole thing?
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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I'd say your mindset is that when you open a woman you will either 1) go directly on a date or to bed, 2)get a number to set something up later 3) get totally rejected

There is no other options.

I've made contact with out of the area women and managed to maintain a long distance relationship with a woman with monthly meetups. Once you get a one on one opportunity it is like any other relationship progression. The difference is the times you are together you make worthwhile and exciting. The emotions you inspire in her will determine her attachment.
 

Ergon

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Thank for replying TwoRocky.

I agree about that mindset. Date or isolate wasn't possible, and I wan't rejected neither, but I thought getting the number was pointless. It seems what she said at the end was a hint she was expecting I get her number.
I know now, next time gotta stick with 1) or 2).
 
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