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Recently there has come to light on the forums that guys who date girls on their social circles only for it to blow up on them.
Sometimes it's the girl fault, Sometimes it's ours.
I figure through observation and my experience. There is a few crucial things to take note of when you want to date girls in your school, in your immediate social circle or work, without being "othered" too much or having things blow up badly. This is few things to handle on our side.
1)You must be respected. You must have social value.
People must find you "fun" to hang out with. People are always looking forward to meeting you, whether you funny or you have something to offer.
2)Your Social value must supercede hers.
You must be in a sense deem more valuable than her. She must not be an equal for i have seen things gone wrong badly when she's equally deem valuable to you. Because when you both on the same level of value, people feel the tense of choosing whom to follow.
3)Be Warmth and Always speak positive things, without denying negative things popping from time to time
I get away with a lot of things in my social circles in the past. Be a vibrant human being and be honestly optimistic. Things are going to get shitty from time to time.
Zac
Sometimes it's the girl fault, Sometimes it's ours.
I figure through observation and my experience. There is a few crucial things to take note of when you want to date girls in your school, in your immediate social circle or work, without being "othered" too much or having things blow up badly. This is few things to handle on our side.
1)You must be respected. You must have social value.
People must find you "fun" to hang out with. People are always looking forward to meeting you, whether you funny or you have something to offer.
2)Your Social value must supercede hers.
You must be in a sense deem more valuable than her. She must not be an equal for i have seen things gone wrong badly when she's equally deem valuable to you. Because when you both on the same level of value, people feel the tense of choosing whom to follow.
3)Be Warmth and Always speak positive things, without denying negative things popping from time to time
I get away with a lot of things in my social circles in the past. Be a vibrant human being and be honestly optimistic. Things are going to get shitty from time to time.
Zac
