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I'll appreciate your advice on this:
I had a failled long term relationship (of over five years) last year. What happedned: She cheated on me and when I talked about it, she called for a break up. After the break up, the girl wasn't talking to me anymore. Even when I texted her severaly, she'd ignore my text and warned me to stop bugging her and I should forget about her. Then, I moved on and forget about her, though we attend the same high school but I cut off contact with her totaly. That was the time I came across the GC website, after reading several posts, I realised my mistakes in the relationship. After five months, we met coincidentialy at my street. This time she gave me a very warm approach and asked if we can compete on a game together (what we often do then to catch fun in the relationship), I agreed but when she texted me that same day I dindn't reply her neither did I participate in the game with her. After 2 months, we met again and this time, she appears more warmly and excited towards me with her body language and facial expressions signifying her interests. Recently her friend told me about her complains of having making a mistake to have ended the relationship with me. Though when I invited her on a date recently, she complied but she didn't come or call either. Is it that I was chasing?
Another QUESTION:
Now that I realised my mistakes in the past relationship (In courtesy of GC Posts) and Having seing those signals on her, I want us to get back to the relationship because I still like her. What do I do? Should I be the one to start it or let her start it first? Though we don't see often. How does it sounds like coming back to such girl? Who should start it first?
P.s: she's 18 while am 24
Thanks!
I had a failled long term relationship (of over five years) last year. What happedned: She cheated on me and when I talked about it, she called for a break up. After the break up, the girl wasn't talking to me anymore. Even when I texted her severaly, she'd ignore my text and warned me to stop bugging her and I should forget about her. Then, I moved on and forget about her, though we attend the same high school but I cut off contact with her totaly. That was the time I came across the GC website, after reading several posts, I realised my mistakes in the relationship. After five months, we met coincidentialy at my street. This time she gave me a very warm approach and asked if we can compete on a game together (what we often do then to catch fun in the relationship), I agreed but when she texted me that same day I dindn't reply her neither did I participate in the game with her. After 2 months, we met again and this time, she appears more warmly and excited towards me with her body language and facial expressions signifying her interests. Recently her friend told me about her complains of having making a mistake to have ended the relationship with me. Though when I invited her on a date recently, she complied but she didn't come or call either. Is it that I was chasing?
Another QUESTION:
Now that I realised my mistakes in the past relationship (In courtesy of GC Posts) and Having seing those signals on her, I want us to get back to the relationship because I still like her. What do I do? Should I be the one to start it or let her start it first? Though we don't see often. How does it sounds like coming back to such girl? Who should start it first?
P.s: she's 18 while am 24
Thanks!
