I'm Afraid of Heartbreak Again

[Native]

Guys - I realized something in talking to my best friend who got back from college this week. He said that he saw my ex with her bf and had on yoga pants or something and it immediately brought up what she did to me which was cheat on me. I realized that I'm afraid of approaching girls because I'm afraid of dealing with that heartbreak again and it seems better to just not deal with it at all. Any practical advice I can get on this matter?

Thanks.

 

[[GC]Jay]

Hey bud, all of us has been through this. Thankfully yours is not worst like the others who's already married, some already got children but still got cheated by their wife, the latter is painful. In the first place...heartbreak is what we should always expect to happen before we get into a relationship. They said if that person is right for you then the two of you were meant for each other but if not then you weren't destined to be together.

If you are afraid of approaching girls because of heartbreaks, well you can't stay single forever unless if you become a priest. So you still got to do the approach and hope for the best.

Good luck and I hope you will never get to experience any more heartaches.