I'm butch and I am new.

[Butch]

Gentleman, my name is Butch!

About me...

I just got divorced a couple months ago from who I thought was my "soul mate"! I feel stupid even saying that!!

I have to say this, CHASE AMANTE SAVED MY LIFE!! Yeah, I was depressed, isolated and torn apart from me loosing my wife. But... Days after the break up I run in to his "how to over come depression" article and he turned my world around instantly!! I went from suicidal thoughts, to me being my old and original self instantly! I searched deep in to myself and realized that I didn't loose a woman, but instead won the freedom to meet any female I wanted!!! My whole ordeal was never finding the "right woman" again and to be left lonely woundering the world alone!

So I started reading,reading, and reading all of chases's articles! They are all pure perfection, exactly what I needed, it was that slap in the face that snapped me out of that stupid idea I had made out to be!

Thank you CHASE!

- Butch

 

[Nuncle]

Yep, it's an awesome site.

Wish I'd found it earlier.

 

[Knight]

Afternoon Butch. Pleased to hear you got out of your bad mood quick. Play it smart.

 

[MonsterzRock]

Cool...good to hear. I joined this website earlier this year and my divorce will be finalized in September-October sometime. I've already learned more here in the past four months than I have in the last four years. And not just about dating and seduction, but things about myself...and more "hind sights" than I can count. The ability to learn, change, and grow almost seems endless with all the numerous articles here.

 

[Butch]

Since I found this site, it made me realize everything I was doing wrong with females! I've made corrections based on the theories and I have seen great improvements!! Before I was the goofy funny guy that would get dismissed as the clown. Now even my friends wonder why I'm so "serious" or "mysterious". I used to think that girls liked the funny guy but man was I wrong! I realized tonight that when your fundamentals are right and you have a sexy vibe, if the girl digs you, anything you do or say will somehow amuse her.

I just got home and I can't stop thinking of all the missed opportunities I've had during my lifetime, I feel a little bitter but I chalk it up to experience. I just turned 26 and I feel that I am just starting on the seduction scene. I am starting from zero, I have a ton of approach anxiety and I have the stupid idea that it is too late for me to start on the game.
I wish I would of found all this information years ago!!it makes me feel somewhat overwhelmed.

 

[Franco]

Welcome aboard, Butch!

This is a great community, and the wealth of information that Chase provides on this website is literally invaluable. I can't think of too many other things in my life that I'd rather have than access to the knowledge that is given here.

And with that, I hope to see more of you on the boards! If you have any questions about the material or any of your interactions with women, please feel free to share it here. There are lots of guys on this forum who are in the same position as you (or were in the same position), and they can give you good advice to keep you moving forward toward your goals.

Best of luck on your journey to becoming a new man!

- Franco

 

[BarryS1]

I used to think that girls liked the funny guy but man was I wrong!

Definitely feel you there, I used to be an entertainer in group and personal setting. My goal was to make ladies snort and giggle as much as possible in hopes of attraction. I was copying what ladies said they wanted instead of finding resources like GirlsChase and asking seducers about their experiences.