You read that right. I'm falling slowly in love with my mentor. I do network marketing and my mentor is a female, her name is Patrice, a hot blonde.
Back Story : I first met her when I would go over to DJ my good bro's house and she would come over and they fuck.
For a while late last year I didn't go over to my bro's house so I didn't see Patrice. I was at a big conference meeting one night and I saw her and we exchanged contact. By then I was getting tired of working with the guy who initially introduced me to the business. So I switched teams and started working with her as my mentor. I am her downtime. She is my upline.
Recently : Since last week I've been dreaming of her. Every night I go to sleep I have some dream either I'm taking her on dates or we are in bed wrapped up naked. Whenever I start dreaming about doing these things with a girl, I know that infatuation and obsessively thinking is creeping up.
Now here are the facts :
1) She has a boyfriend ( I don't care about him TBH )
2) Last week we were at a meeting together the whole day and on the way while on the bus she asked " do you have a ducts ( condom ) ?
3) We have so much in common, we always have fun together and I think she likes me more than just a guy she wants to mentor. To note both of us are 19 and she is such a natural at the business that I love having her as my mentor.
I had told her " yes I always carry a ducts ( condom )..no one else on the bus heard. A gc member told me I should have fucked her the same day because she obviously wanted me. I kinda agree.
Why I don't fully agree is because if I did ( or plan to get sex with her in the future, I may lose her as a mentor. She could become my girlfriend, Hey that would be great.
What I'd hate though is it going backwards, the sex doesn't happen for some reason and I'm stuck in a awkward position of attempting to do it and she is kinda stuck, probably trying to forget it all happened Or even worse, we get together but it doesn't last and we have to go back to working together.
I'm thinking it's best to just friend zone her completely and have her as my mentor and learn to control my feelings around her.
I feel the vibe, it's like we are secretly in love with each other, I remember on the bus she had put her face real close to mine and stared at my lips like to say " kiss me " then we broke the tension with laughter.
Tonight both of us meet and she starts telling me about plans to rent somewhere and move out from her parents. I tell her I want to do the same and have a room friend so the money is paid equal and it's easier. Then Patrice says " yeah me too, my bestie from high school ( a guy ) he will be living in with me when I do rent somewhere ". Immediately I feel jealous and to hide it I laugh and say " cool ". And she laughs too.
I didn't want to put myself in this situation to begin with. My friend DJ, he on multiple occasions said that I could " fuck " Patrice when she came over to his house, but then I never happened to be there when she was and that was way back before I knew she was in the business.
So guys what should I do? Attempt sex with Patrice or not? The pros and cons ? If I'm to get out of the friend zone how do I do it and when? And if you recommend I have sex how would I do that without it affecting us, her as my mentor relationship?
Troy
Back Story : I first met her when I would go over to DJ my good bro's house and she would come over and they fuck.
For a while late last year I didn't go over to my bro's house so I didn't see Patrice. I was at a big conference meeting one night and I saw her and we exchanged contact. By then I was getting tired of working with the guy who initially introduced me to the business. So I switched teams and started working with her as my mentor. I am her downtime. She is my upline.
Recently : Since last week I've been dreaming of her. Every night I go to sleep I have some dream either I'm taking her on dates or we are in bed wrapped up naked. Whenever I start dreaming about doing these things with a girl, I know that infatuation and obsessively thinking is creeping up.
Now here are the facts :
1) She has a boyfriend ( I don't care about him TBH )
2) Last week we were at a meeting together the whole day and on the way while on the bus she asked " do you have a ducts ( condom ) ?
3) We have so much in common, we always have fun together and I think she likes me more than just a guy she wants to mentor. To note both of us are 19 and she is such a natural at the business that I love having her as my mentor.
I had told her " yes I always carry a ducts ( condom )..no one else on the bus heard. A gc member told me I should have fucked her the same day because she obviously wanted me. I kinda agree.
Why I don't fully agree is because if I did ( or plan to get sex with her in the future, I may lose her as a mentor. She could become my girlfriend, Hey that would be great.
What I'd hate though is it going backwards, the sex doesn't happen for some reason and I'm stuck in a awkward position of attempting to do it and she is kinda stuck, probably trying to forget it all happened Or even worse, we get together but it doesn't last and we have to go back to working together.
I'm thinking it's best to just friend zone her completely and have her as my mentor and learn to control my feelings around her.
I feel the vibe, it's like we are secretly in love with each other, I remember on the bus she had put her face real close to mine and stared at my lips like to say " kiss me " then we broke the tension with laughter.
Tonight both of us meet and she starts telling me about plans to rent somewhere and move out from her parents. I tell her I want to do the same and have a room friend so the money is paid equal and it's easier. Then Patrice says " yeah me too, my bestie from high school ( a guy ) he will be living in with me when I do rent somewhere ". Immediately I feel jealous and to hide it I laugh and say " cool ". And she laughs too.
I didn't want to put myself in this situation to begin with. My friend DJ, he on multiple occasions said that I could " fuck " Patrice when she came over to his house, but then I never happened to be there when she was and that was way back before I knew she was in the business.
So guys what should I do? Attempt sex with Patrice or not? The pros and cons ? If I'm to get out of the friend zone how do I do it and when? And if you recommend I have sex how would I do that without it affecting us, her as my mentor relationship?
Troy
