I'm 42 close to 43 hardly had a girlfriend but people say i'm attractive. Tall and smart and successful now but slightly aspie probably. I have to figure out why I failed.
As someone who appreciates the importance of specificity and precision of language, I'm sure you will recognise the incongruence in this sentence.
What you are really saying, it seems to me, is;
- I am attractive.
- I am tall (important for girls but not essential but nonetheless it's an attribute you appear to value).
- I am smart.
- I am successful.
- But I failed with women therefore I have failed.
This is normal dude. We always discount our successes because we have them and they are in the past. So all your needs are being met except for the need for sex and female affection. So you have failed in this area of your life
so far. But that's probably because you haven't really given the amount of
productive attention that you could have. Which is why you are now here, right?
42 is young, believe me. There's plenty of time for you to get what you want.
